Outfit for a March wedding

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I never get dressed up and have a break from the kids so I’m looking forward to it! But no clue on what to wear. I’m early 40s. My good bits are that I’m fairly slim (size 8-10), with a small waist. I am a pear shape. The bits I’d like to cover are my untoned thighs and upper arms and c-section belly. I’m pretty short (5ft 1) and prefer not to have too much boob out. Also need shoes (bit of a heel ok but nothing too high). I’d like to stay away from black (and white!) but fairly easy on colour.

Budget £100ish plus shoes. Happy to shop on vinted etc. I love needle and thread dresses, and vampires wife (but totally out of budget)

help please!

I'd look at an A line dress with a boat or not too deep v-neckline. Maybe vintage in style. Something like these.
https://prettykittyfashion.co.uk/products/emerald-green-lace-3-4-sleeve-vintage-bardot-swing-dress?

https://theseamstressofbloomsbury.co.uk/products/cindy-dress-in-french-navy?
https://theseamstressofbloomsbury.co.uk/collections/dresses/products/eva-dress

Or you might like this if you like Vampires Wife? This brand does some lovely dresses and bargain in their sale.
https://raishma.co.uk/products/darcy-dress

https://raishma.co.uk/products/carol-dress?_pos=5&_fid=1ed6bf914&_ss=c&variant=45383679738131

https://raishma.co.uk/products/clara-dress?_pos=30&_fid=1ed6bf914&_ss=c&variant=45383514980627

This is lovely but I would like a dress that I can wear a proper bra with.

I've just bought a dress for DD's wedding (also March) from pretty kitty - completely bra compatible - they have a huge range and delivery was within 72 hours. I chose a dress I could wear thick tights with due to time of year, I'll be wearing knee high boots and take shoes (possibly) to change into.

Thank you ! I’ll have a look