I'm looking for a belted wrap coat, mid or long length, but I want one that is super soft. I have seen the kind I mean but have no idea how to find one. I'd like one that sort of moulds to me and has no stiffness, if you know what I mean. It is the sort of coat that almost ventures into cardigan but is definitely a coat to look at. I've seen lots of coats but they all look like they're a stiffer fabric rather than a very soft one. Can anyone help? Preferably looking for pale grey but all colours considered, size 16.