I’ve had 3 kids and I’m in my early 40s. I’ve not had any surgery, no Botox etc and I’m proud to look like I’ve got an 18 year old daughter. I had 3 9lb babies and I do have stretch marks on my tummy and upper legs. I go to the gym 4x a week and I’m proud of my body. I’ve joined a new gym with a pool and I only own bikinis. I still want to wear a bikini to the pool, but I am self conscious of the marks on my tummy. Should I care? Do people actually worry or care if women have stretch marks?