Since turning 40, I'm finding clothes a nightmare. I have two issues. The first is that I'm really skinny up top (size 6 with zero bust), but in the last two years have developed a paunch/belly (always used to be flat - most irritating now it sticks out more than my chest!). This means most dresses look crap unless they're shift dresses, and it's so hard to find any that don't swamp me.
The second issue is that I can't stand having anything even vaguely tight around my waist. For some strange reason it causes massive bloating. Also highly irritating, particularly given the fashion for high waisted stuff. I was able to get by with low rise stuff before, and I used to live in Gap's super soft low rise jeggings, but they're all threadbare now and Hollister (which kept me going for the last 2 years) have stopped doing them too (apart from awful ripped ones). Would be willing to try bootcut jeans as used to love these when I was younger, but do low rise ones exist?
I basically live in leggings or joggers, and have a couple of dresses for work. But when it comes to the weekend and going out, I have no idea what to wear.
The summer is ok as I get by with elasticated waist band skirts and t shirts. But would so like to have some smart bottoms to wear for the winter. Just don't know where to turn!
I'm 5'5 and about 8 stone, so a bit puny and can't pull off a lot of styles.
Any suggestions gratefully received.