Feel so deflated after the shops today.

[Lightsandtights]

Everything is black, white, beige or khaki. It’s just all so dull and I can’t wear any of those colours. Zara had some lovely pieces but boxy or oversized jumpers just make me look massive. I’m a size 12 with boobs. Today was just so difficult and I couldn’t find anything smart causal. If I wanted a bog standard hoodie, puffer jacket or gilet, these were in abundance. I just wanted one or two nice tops/jumpers. I tried Zara, H&M, New Look and Primark. I’ve got marks and Spencer while DS is at rugby tomorrow.

Has anyone else been shopping recently? Have you found anything lovely?

Similar issues here but saw Sugarhill Brighton recommended on another thread and have bought quite a few jumpers and dresses. Really pleased with them and super quick delivery etc.

Search Vinted for the colour and style and brand you know suits you - you can filter for brand new with tags so no quality concerns. Seriously the only way to go when everything in the shops is so dreary

Sézane knitwear is absolutely beautiful and comes in a range of colours. It’s pricey but often on Vinted.

Sugarhill Brighton is good for colourful stuff as well.

Uniqlo has some lovely jumpers. Lots of styles, colours and natural fibres.
I ant stand all the recycled polyester stuff that is proudly declared on so many clothes at the moment.

Kettlewell (mail order) do brilliant basic t shirts and jumpers which wash well. I love bright yellow, orange and reds and bright blue suits me, too. I don't work for them....

Sugarhill Brighton are also fab for bright clothes. Sometimes their knitwear is an acrylic mix but they also do 100% cotton e.g.
https://www.sugarhillbrighton.com/collections/knitwear/products/rashina-v-neck-jumper-red-pink-wide-stripes

@Lightsandtights , I included the Jigsaw top as it was not drab and the shop is on the high street. My other posts suggested Sainsbury's (which isn't on my high street but it's nearby). I'm not sure why you thought your post was helpful.

@Lightsandtights , roll necks are out for me too. I'm busty and shouldery so would look like a box.

I collect brands I like from Vinted: M&Em, Wyse, etc. Pay less than new Zara prices. I find you have to wear things a few times to find out if they don’t suit/ride up/material irritates/bulge in the wrong places.

If the preloved things don’t work, then back on Vinted they go.

If you’re a size 12, there’s potential to get the boobs looking ok in a really good bra. It normally helps. Crew neck with well supported boobs can look good. Remember, the look at the moment is oversized so bear that in mind.

This is my go to for knitwear. I discovered it on holiday in Masham and it’s fabulous.

https://www.nearlynewcashmere.co.uk/collections/womens-cashmere

What's your budget, OP? LK Bennett has a beautful top on sale at the moment that really fits big boobs well.

https://www.lkbennett.com/product/TWESMEVISCOSEBlueBlue~-Blue

Community Clothing's new website is a bit of a surprise if you're not familiar with the brand! But good call and I have ordered some Welsh pants.

This dress is just soooo wearable (not quite as dramatic as Casey Casey but a lot more affordable)

Colenimo dress

@Lightsandtights , I do apologise, it should have read:

@MsRosley , I included the Jigsaw top as it was not drab and the shop is on the high street. My other posts suggested Sainsbury's (which isn't on my high street but it's nearby). I'm not sure why you thought your post was helpful.

Can I ask what sizing and quality are like - have seen a couple of things that look good online , thank you

I’m a size 12 and both jumpers and dresses are pretty standard sizing. Also happy with the quality - wash well!

If you want brightly coloured, reasonably priced, v-neck sweaters, try Uniqlo. I can really recommend their Merino wool range, which is soft against the skin, fairly lightweight, so excellent for layering and when machine washed on a wool/delicates setting, last for ages! Their lambs wool and cashmere are also very reasonably priced and wash very well and there are loads of colours to choose from!
https://www.uniqlo.com/uk/en/women/knitwear/jumpers-cardigans?sz=36

My mum is very short and wanted an outfit for her grandsons wedding. She booked an appointment with a personal stylist at John Lewis . The stylist did a pre appointment phone call to establish height, weight etc but also things that were important/ non negotiable. For you Op that is V necks, bright colours . She was brilliant. Mum bought a dress she would never have chosen otherwise and she's worn it to other events too. No charge and no pressure to buy. They know the stock, what's on sale, what comes up big/ small. Absolutely worth a try

I’m in exactly the same position. I got 3 or 4 jumpers from m&s last year as I could at least turn the sleeves up. I’ve struggled everywhere else. Everything is so baggy, blandly coloured and crap quality (and I can’t afford £249 for a jumper, plus I refuse to as I will be wearing them in a school). I want something more fitted, 3/4 sleeves and to have a bit of something different to it as I don’t follow fashion or want something with an ‘inspirational’ message on it. I used to like Oasis and Warehouse but don’t like the look of them online. I’m a size 10 with 32ff boobs (and I do wear a good bra 🙄) but even the size 6’s are massive, have go-go gadget arms and just make me look like a little kid in her mum’s hideously bland looking jumper. I’m still wearing jumpers that I got over 10 years ago and they are starting to get really tatty but they fit correctly.

vinted for quality branded clothes is good.

I've bought a few things from here. They do take longer to arrive as made when you order, but usually some nice colours and not boxy thisisunfolded.com/collections/collection-08

I don’t bother anymore. I follow Styleupwithabby on Insta and wardrobe sorted!

Thanks for this recommendation. That's a great website. Have already ordered a jumper.

Totally agree. I want nice colours too but it’s all dull dull dull. Im 50 and cannot find anything I want to wear. Seen it all before and didn’t like it then. No oasis, warehouse, top shop
on the high street anymore so all my old faves gone.

sad.

I agree, nothing seems to fit me anymore. I tried on five things in Fatface and four in White Stuff yesterday, both companies I've bought from before, and everything fit weirdly. Very unflattering, too baggy in some items, too tight or cropped in others. I came away feeling very fed up and like my body was at fault... but then I have a wardrobe full of clothes that fit me well. So what's happened?

Also yes, the beige. Hate it.