Help me choose an outfit please

[lupinlass]

In a few weeks I'm going to a reunion of 8 friends. 4 men and 4 women. One of the guys was my first love and we went out as teenagers for 3.5yrs. We split up when we went to uni. We're now all 50 and meeting up for the first time in nearly 30 years!

I want to make a good impression (show him what he missed out on!! ) and look kind of sexy but not too try hard. We're all staying at his house (he's divorced) and I'm sooo looking forward to catching up.

However.... I almost ALWAYS wear jeans / shorts and either flip flops or fluffy boots 🙈 Not worn a dress in years (apart from occasional summer dresses when really hot).

I have no idea where to start! I am 5'9'' slim with a bit of a meno belly

Help!

https://www.roman.co.uk/cowl-neck-ruched-maxi-dress-14268208 this ?

So, this may not be your thing but I’m casual at heart and for my “I just threw this on, but I’ve made an effort, but I want to be comfortable but sexy” look I wear a skims lounge dress and oversized linen shirt like this photo (not me) with one button done over my belly. If I need to elevate it a bit I’ll knot the shirt and the trailing bits still hide enough of my belly. Throw on some gold chains and go.
it’s a useful comfy versatile dress to own too