Bag help please!

[Cutie101]

I must have looked at 30+ black tote bags and while they largely all look the same, I can't find one I like. The closest to liking one was a Kate Spade one at Bicester today at a bargain £105, but it was a bit too tall. I want soft rather than structured and I don't have limitless money. Anyone seen a lovely one out there?

https://www.tkmaxx.com/uk/en/women/accessories/handbags/black-tote-bag/p/11091948

https://www.tkmaxx.com/uk/en/women/accessories/handbags/black-leather-tote-bag/p/11101887

https://www.tkmaxx.com/uk/en/women/accessories/handbags/black-knotted-strap-tote-bag/p/11950878

Massimo Dutti have a lovely one, called the Nappa Leather Tote

What about this? Definitely soft rather than structured:

https://honeyandtoast.co.uk/products/grace-tote-bag-black

Thanks all, not doubt the one yet. Honey and toast one I've looked at a few times but it looks a bit tall for what I'm looking for. Good width though. Close but not quite there. Also not sure if I want a full on zip along the top.