Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Style and beauty

Looking for style advice? Chat all about it here. For the latest discounts on fashion and beauty, sign up for Mumsnet Moneysaver emails.

Posh autumnal wedding

25 replies

crochetmonkey74 · 06/08/2023 21:02

Exactly this, I'm a guest at a wedding with a colour theme of dark and sage green and dark orange.
My ideal look would be a velvet Vampires Wife Dress , but I do not have the funds , have considered renting one but not sure what it would even look like on my short size 16 self
Can anyone spam me with options? I'm rubbish at shoes so any help with what type would match what outfits would also be good. Would also be happy to go down the velvet suit look or something with sequins . Can anyone help?

OP posts:
Thread gallery
10
BigUpTheOxfordComma · 07/08/2023 06:01

Hi. What's your budget?
And do you mean over 5ft 3 short, or petite short?

crochetmonkey74 · 07/08/2023 06:45

Oh yeah budget would help! Probably up to £200
I'm 5ft 3

OP posts:
MarciaSaysANumber · 07/08/2023 07:29

And which colour would suit you best - light green, sage green or orange?

BTW Vampire’s Wife clothes go up to a size 18, so are clearly intended to look good on a size 16 body. But they’re awfully popular, so there’s always a risk of someone else turning up in the same one.

There’s this:

https://www.thereformation.com/products/trixie-dress/1312684FOE.html

Trixie Dress

You make it look easy. Shop the Trixie Dress from Reformation, a fitted, midi length dress with a sweetheart neckline and puffed sleeves.

https://www.thereformation.com/products/trixie-dress/1312684FOE.html

Lalaloulous · 07/08/2023 07:32

Have you had a look on Vinted? I quite often get occasion dresses from there as quite often people have only worn them a few times so good condition and prices much much cheaper than brand new.

MarciaSaysANumber · 07/08/2023 07:35

Or this;

https://uk.realisationpar.com/the-alba-dazed-noir/

Midi length. Might need a velvet jacket or louche furry coat for Autumn.

Posh autumnal wedding
MarciaSaysANumber · 07/08/2023 07:44

Green and orange together? May not be your style, but could be wonderfully stylish with considered grooming and Autumnal accessories.

https://kemitelford.com/collections/dresses/products/limited-edition-sunpo-belted-dress

(Might need shortening, or not. I’m 5.3 and have never worn petite clothes - it’s never occurred to me and I like an unlimited choice. I sometimes have longer dresses altered, but the vast majority of clothes, including trousers, fit me unproblematically. Possibly I automatically avoid stuff that has completely wrong proportions.)

Limited Edition Sunpo Belted Dress

This is one of the best selling styles in our store. The Sunpo Belted Dress Dress is an amazingly gorgeous voluminous dress.  This design was inspired by Yvonne's love for Scandinavian and Japanese relaxed-fit dresses. This dress will not disappoint yo...

https://kemitelford.com/collections/dresses/products/limited-edition-sunpo-belted-dress

Whataretheodds · 07/08/2023 08:03

Not quit what you asked for but fits the brief. You could have it taken up.

Posh autumnal wedding
crochetmonkey74 · 07/08/2023 11:14

MarciaSaysANumber · 07/08/2023 07:29

And which colour would suit you best - light green, sage green or orange?

BTW Vampire’s Wife clothes go up to a size 18, so are clearly intended to look good on a size 16 body. But they’re awfully popular, so there’s always a risk of someone else turning up in the same one.

There’s this:

https://www.thereformation.com/products/trixie-dress/1312684FOE.html

I think sage green or dark orange velvet would suit me best
Love that dress but it might be a bit slinky for me

OP posts:
crochetmonkey74 · 07/08/2023 11:15

MarciaSaysANumber · 07/08/2023 07:44

Green and orange together? May not be your style, but could be wonderfully stylish with considered grooming and Autumnal accessories.

https://kemitelford.com/collections/dresses/products/limited-edition-sunpo-belted-dress

(Might need shortening, or not. I’m 5.3 and have never worn petite clothes - it’s never occurred to me and I like an unlimited choice. I sometimes have longer dresses altered, but the vast majority of clothes, including trousers, fit me unproblematically. Possibly I automatically avoid stuff that has completely wrong proportions.)

Yeah with the height thing I was more thinking that the Vampires Wife styles are always modelled on tall willow women where I am shorter and curvier

OP posts:
crochetmonkey74 · 07/08/2023 11:16

MarciaSaysANumber · 07/08/2023 07:58

Orange-ish … This outfit would be both cute and versatile - very easy to wear in normal life;

https://www.rusthebrand.com/collections/all/products/ballerine-tomate?variant=42878869733570

I'm not so sure about this one, do like the idea of being able to rewear though

OP posts:
crochetmonkey74 · 07/08/2023 11:17

MarciaSaysANumber · 07/08/2023 08:23

Oh my - look at these. Spend your whole budget on tights and just rent or borrow the rest?

https://www.ladoublej.com/en/ready-to-wear/accessories/small-accessories/printed-tights-papyrus-green-SOC0013NYL008PAY01GR02.html

(La Double J does have the most beautiful, colourful dresses, etc., as well. Worth seeking out for rental or pre-owned.)

Wow I cannot believe that there are £260 tights!

OP posts:
narniabusiness · 07/08/2023 11:21

This one? Burgundy velvet by Sea. It has a cut out at the back.

Posh autumnal wedding
narniabusiness · 07/08/2023 11:23

Or this? Which is cut out free

Posh autumnal wedding
narniabusiness · 07/08/2023 11:24

Ignore the second one. I forgot to check sizes and it’s sold out.

crochetmonkey74 · 07/08/2023 12:41

narniabusiness · 07/08/2023 11:21

This one? Burgundy velvet by Sea. It has a cut out at the back.

I love this but I might have a fat back

OP posts:
crochetmonkey74 · 07/08/2023 12:43

Those pin up ones are ace . I looked at vampires wife rentals and how do you know if it will fit you ?

OP posts:
BigUpTheOxfordComma · 07/08/2023 14:30

If you scroll down to the Falconetti, the (non-model) curvier woman wearing the gold colour of it looks really fantastic.
https://www.you.co.uk/the-vampires-wife-dress-rental/
The green version for you, obviously.

Ditto actress Nicola Coughlin (5 ft 1 tall), in the dark floral:
https://www.vogue.co.uk/fashion/gallery/the-vampires-wife-festival

I guess it'd be a lovely floor length maxi, if you wore heels?

BigUpTheOxfordComma · 07/08/2023 14:33

Forgot her upright pic:
https://twitter.com/NicandNewts/status/1564192252099969026

BigUpTheOxfordComma · 07/08/2023 14:36

*Coughlan 🙄

crochetmonkey74 · 07/08/2023 17:50

Ooh yeah they do look fab don't they

OP posts:
evtheria · 07/08/2023 18:24

Most rental companies let you 'change your mind'! I think minus a basic fee, but it's an option 😉

New posts on this thread. Refresh page