I am pale with blue eyes and naturally brown hair, I have had my hair professionally bleached (ashy) for years but only 4 times a year so I have the "rooty" look (it's a look right...) most of the year. Millennial side parting I'm not sure I can get rid of (tried middle recently and took me back to bad memories from the 90s) shoulder length. Cannot grow my hair for love nor money (probably due to the bleaching...although it's not in too bad condition I don't think but needs a good trim every few months which means it doesn't get longer.
I don't really want to go especially short as I figure I will go short when I'm older so I guess I wanted to keep what length I have for longer...if that doesn't sound silly.
So yeah, how do you find a new hair style?! And how do you pick a colour? How often would I need to get my hair dyed if I went dark (don't like my natural shade, its a boring brown!)