If you are badly or well dressed, whether your skin is great or problematic, whether you wear expensive or cheap clothes, whether you are slim or overweight..........
The hair is what seals it.
I really do think that.
If the hair isn't working the rest goes to hell.
I am like this. I have decent clothes, am slim, can afford decent stuff, and have an ok sense of style, but my hair lets me down into infinity!
It is extremely frizzy by nature, no matter how healthy or what product - and i have spent some money! And by frizzy i mean the ends dry within 10 seconds and fluff up like wore wool.
It grows sloooowly and usually snaps off at chin length for no reason i have ever been able to fathom. It is just weird hair, and can let an entire look go to hell in a heartbeat.
I see hair that looks decent and often dont see anything else. People seem to be obsessed with bodyweight or luxury goods but the hair overpowers it all imho.
I so wish that mine was different. I am thankful that i have it, that I am not suffering an illness that might alter it, but try as i might, no matter what i spend, it always makes me look sad.