I'm pretty much the same as you OP but my sister is a stylist (conscious fashion) and she suggested to me:
A gold, short necklace. Lots around atm with zodiac signs etc.. I got mine from Anthropolgie but I've seen others at a lower price point.
Chunky, gladiator sandals but they must have crossed straps somewhere, not horizontal straps all the way up if that makes sense?
A middle parting but not too precise.
Always tuck in, no matter your body shape.
No pointy nails, just nicely polished and rounded.
Cross body bags worn high like a previous poster said are good.
Thick eyebrows, no tadpole or arched shapes.
Wide trousers but no higher than ankle length or it tends to look like someone on a saga coach trip, I learnt the hard way.
If you have prescription sunglasses they need to be very dark as my sister told me I look like a middle aged man/paedo.
That's all I remember from my harrowing styling session!