I am late 50s, hate dressing up, a size 12-14 on top but quite flat chested but have a very podgy tummy and a size 16 on bottom. I would prefer a dress or possibly a top and skirt. Something I can wear to the wedding but also to a graduation. I will also need to wear flat shoes as I have incredibly weird feet! I don't know where to start. I bought a couple of wrap dresses for a cruise last year but because I have not much bust but needed to be big enough to accommodate my podgy tummy they really gaped on top and ended up not wearing them.