I have a couple of pairs of flared jeans already but they are more fitted on the thigh/bum than I would like them to be. I am solid of limb but I think they are cut to be that way. I'd like some that are more or a relaxed fit at the top, high waist, or at least not low rise and not short, I need 32" inside leg. I am a size 14, usually 32/32 jeans. Anyone seen any/got any ideas?