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HELP!!!! find me a dress please. Quick.

17 replies

ohtobe4 · 30/03/2023 20:14

background….
I am autistic, and suffer from depression (about the way I look I think.)
I am 5ft 5, size 20 tummy, size 40D bra. But I have good legs I think. Well, they're thinner than the rest of me anyway. I am 53 but look a bit younger I reckon.
I need a 'sparkly cocktail dress' for Saturday.
I have been putting it off as shopping makes me more depressed.

Can anyone point me in a direction please?

I normal dress in jeans and a black top for work, and jeans and a grey jumper for home.
Thank you.

OP posts:

Isyesterdaytomorrowtoday · 30/03/2023 20:20

How much have you got to spend OP?

YouveGotToGrooveIt · 30/03/2023 20:20

Something like...

https://www.scarlettandjo.com/collections/the-red-carpet-collection/products/victoria-blue-glitter-angel-sleeve-mesh-midi-dress?variant=41339034337327

Victoria Blue Glitter Angel Sleeve Mesh Midi Dress

LIMITED EDITION This Angel Sleeve Midi Dress is made in a super soft stretch POWERFIT® mesh featuring an all over blue glitter on black. The fabric breathes. This dress comes with a magic waistband, in-built corset to help accentuate curves and brings...

https://www.scarlettandjo.com/collections/the-red-carpet-collection/products/victoria-blue-glitter-angel-sleeve-mesh-midi-dress?variant=41339034337327

Isyesterdaytomorrowtoday · 30/03/2023 20:25

https://www.riverisland.com/p/plus-gold-paisley-long-sleeve-midi-dress-760768

Plus gold paisley long sleeve midi dress | River Island

Shop our new Plus gold paisley long sleeve midi dress at River Island today. Order now for Free Click & Collect and Delivery (Ts&Cs apply).

https://www.riverisland.com/p/plus-gold-paisley-long-sleeve-midi-dress-760768

minipie · 30/03/2023 20:30

https://www.johnlewis.com/ro-zo-sparkle-jersey-pleat-waist-mini-dress-black/p109510390

https://www.johnlewis.com/phase-eight-angel-sequin-chiffon-mini-dress-black-multi/p6381348

https://www.johnlewis.com/live-unlimited-shimmer-v-neck-hanky-hem-dress-silver-black/p109385993

https://www.johnlewis.com/sosandar-sequin-embellished-bardot-dress-champagne-gold/p109428288

minipie · 30/03/2023 20:33

https://www.johnlewis.com/gina-bacconi-daya-metallic-jersey-dress/gunmetal/p4789651?size=20

https://www.johnlewis.com/hotsquash-sequin-stripe-shift-dress-multi/p5691861

Muchtoomuchtodo · 30/03/2023 20:34

Have a look at Quiz https://www.quizclothing.co.uk/clothes/dresses/oc:going-out-party/si:20/?source=linkshare&affid=eExdyzaFMJU&utm_source=RakutenMarketing&utm_medium=Affiliate&utm_campaign=2126233:www.easyfundraising.org.uk&utm_content=10&utm_term=UKNetwork&ranMID=35605&ranEAID=eExdyzaFMJU&ranSiteID=eExdyzaFMJU-MXmYf.TOZAm0QSmCb5XqJQ&siteID=eExdyzaFMJU-MXmYf.TOZAm0QSmCb5XqJQ

Going Out & Party | 20 | Clothes | Dresses

https://www.quizclothing.co.uk/clothes/dresses/oc:going-out-party/si:20/?source=linkshare&affid=eExdyzaFMJU&utm_source=RakutenMarketing&utm_medium=Affiliate&utm_campaign=2126233:www.easyfundraising.org.uk&utm_content=10&utm_term=UKNetwork&ranMID=35605&ranEAID=eExdyzaFMJU&ranSiteID=eExdyzaFMJU-MXmYf.TOZAm0QSmCb5XqJQ&siteID=eExdyzaFMJU-MXmYf.TOZAm0QSmCb5XqJQ

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ohtobe4 · 30/03/2023 20:40

Happy to spend up to £150.
@YouveGotToGrooveIt I like that site. Do you like this one?

https://www.scarlettandjo.com/collections/the-red-carpet-collection/products/claudette-black-gold-glitter-jersey-knot-front-dress?variant=40092326887471

@Isyesterdaytomorrowtoday too attention grabbing for me, but thank you for replying. x

Claudette Black Gold Glitter Jersey Twist Knot Front Dress

Elevate your seasonal wardrobe in this form-flattering fit and flare dress. This fabulous dress features a substantial gold glitter covering on a soft silky smooth black fabric. The dress is tailored to suit and flatter all body shapes. Designed in a d...

https://www.scarlettandjo.com/collections/the-red-carpet-collection/products/claudette-black-gold-glitter-jersey-knot-front-dress?variant=40092326887471

OP posts:

minipie · 30/03/2023 20:44

I like that dress OP. You’d need to check they can deliver fast enough… you really need next day delivery

America12 · 30/03/2023 20:47

Have you got a John Lewis near you ? I wouldn't trust the post now. Personal shopper ?

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ohtobe4 · 30/03/2023 20:49

yes. I hadn't thought of John Lewis (duh).
tomorrow is shopping day. ugh.

OP posts:

Talipesmum · 30/03/2023 20:50

ohtobe4 · 30/03/2023 20:40

Happy to spend up to £150.
@YouveGotToGrooveIt I like that site. Do you like this one?

https://www.scarlettandjo.com/collections/the-red-carpet-collection/products/claudette-black-gold-glitter-jersey-knot-front-dress?variant=40092326887471

@Isyesterdaytomorrowtoday too attention grabbing for me, but thank you for replying. x

I like that one OP and you can order it next day delivery from Next which is usually pretty reliable.

BasiliskStare · 30/03/2023 20:54

@ohtobe4 - I think that would look nice & pretty and a decent price . Especially if you have good legs I think that could be very flattering

mnahmnah · 30/03/2023 20:57

What about this?

YouveGotToGrooveIt · 30/03/2023 21:23

ohtobe4 · 30/03/2023 20:40

Happy to spend up to £150.
@YouveGotToGrooveIt I like that site. Do you like this one?

https://www.scarlettandjo.com/collections/the-red-carpet-collection/products/claudette-black-gold-glitter-jersey-knot-front-dress?variant=40092326887471

@Isyesterdaytomorrowtoday too attention grabbing for me, but thank you for replying. x

Yes, I think it's lovely.

Can confirm that Next's next day delivery has always been reliable for me so if you can order it from them (they stock quite a lot of S & J stuff) then great.

iamnottoofatiamjusttooshort · 30/03/2023 21:25

ohtobe4 · 30/03/2023 20:40

Happy to spend up to £150.
@YouveGotToGrooveIt I like that site. Do you like this one?

https://www.scarlettandjo.com/collections/the-red-carpet-collection/products/claudette-black-gold-glitter-jersey-knot-front-dress?variant=40092326887471

@Isyesterdaytomorrowtoday too attention grabbing for me, but thank you for replying. x

Oh I love that dress !!!!

Itsonlyagame · 30/03/2023 21:32

Scarlett and Jo are fantastic.

TokyoSushi · 30/03/2023 21:37

Get the one that you linked OP, it's lovely!

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