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black tie help please

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cookiegardencat · 26/03/2023 19:44

I have a black tie wedding to go to in the summer in London (so could be quite hot) and I'm really struggling to find something i like so send me ideas please?

I'm a size 14, 5ft 9, very much a pear shape so tend to prefer a line shapes that don't cling to my hips. I'm a fan of tulle but not essential.

I have a pair of fancy emerald earrings I would love to wear so colours that match with this would be ideal.
budget is limited, max 150 but ideally less than 100....

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Northby · 26/03/2023 19:55

I love being a little bit extra for black tie events. I thought this dress was really fun and your earrings would look lovely!

https://www.karenmillen.com/velvet-feather-strap-midi-dress/BKK05090-2.html?color=572

Velvet Feather Strap Midi Dress | Karen Millen

The epitome of midnight magic, this tactile piece balances the lustrous depth of velvet with tactile plumes of feathers. Sculpting the silhouette with a bespoke fit, offset the harmonised ensemble of this midi dress with soaring stilettos.Feather-trimm...

https://www.karenmillen.com/velvet-feather-strap-midi-dress/BKK05090-2.html?color=572

Whataretheodds · 26/03/2023 19:58

Can you go bra less or manage a halter /backless/racer?

CalmConfident · 26/03/2023 20:00

Renting rather than buying is a great option for black tie events. Also check 2nd hand dress boutiques - lots have great options at moment as gearing up for prom season

PermanentTemporary · 26/03/2023 20:02

A young friend of mine is going to a wedding in this Asks tulle dress which i think is lovely. I know it's labelled 'bridesmaid' so I might check what the actual bridesmaids are going to wear, but imo it's an option.

Lace & Beads Bridesmaid Madison v neck tulle dress in sage | ASOS

Shop Lace & Beads Bridesmaid Madison v neck tulle dress in sage at ASOS. Order now with multiple payment and delivery options, including free and unlimited next day delivery (Ts&Cs apply).

https://www.asos.com/lace-beads/lace-beads-bridesmaid-madison-v-neck-tulle-dress-in-sage/prd/204050708?SearchQuery=tulle+maxi+dress&clr=sage&colourWayId=204050709

Whataretheodds · 26/03/2023 20:04

https://www.karenmillen.com/corseted-tulle-woven-midi-dress/BKK08106.html

Hot pink will make the earrings pop

Corseted Tulle Woven Midi Dress | Karen Millen

Style: Midi DressFabric: WovenLength: MidiNeckline: BandeauSleeve Length: SleevelessThis is a limited edition piece, created as one of just 150 styles.

https://www.karenmillen.com/corseted-tulle-woven-midi-dress/BKK08106.html

PermanentTemporary · 26/03/2023 20:04

I like this Coast one, slightly Grecian feel and a cooler shade which I think could work with the earrings sleeveless

Tulle Tiered Maxi Dress | Coast

Live out your princess fantasy. This exceptionally romantic maxi dress comes trimmed with tiered ruffles and layers of frothy tulle. Just add metallic heels to make your fairytale fashion dream come true.Style: Full Skirted DressDesign: PlainFabric: Me...

https://www.coastfashion.com/tulle-tiered-maxi-dress/ACC95331.html?color=209

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cookiegardencat · 26/03/2023 20:19

ooh thanks for so many responses so far.
I don't mind going extra. we have been told the more dressy the better, so I was thinking probably need to stick to full length?

I adore that Karen millen one, but think it might be a bit more of a cocktail vibe?

I quite like that long coast one, perhaps in the pink

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cookiegardencat · 26/03/2023 20:20

Whataretheodds · 26/03/2023 19:58

Can you go bra less or manage a halter /backless/racer?

yes @Whataretheodds backless is OK. would prefer a bra option but have worn those stick on bras before and found them OK. I'm a d cup so have some boob but not so much that it's a huge issue

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cookiegardencat · 26/03/2023 20:22

CalmConfident · 26/03/2023 20:00

Renting rather than buying is a great option for black tie events. Also check 2nd hand dress boutiques - lots have great options at moment as gearing up for prom season

Great idea @CalmConfident
I had sort of considered this but never really sure where to look or how to go about it all. I feel like I'd need to try on first.

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