Advice on Shape wear. Help.

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A few days ago I posted about DD getting married for the second time and what outfit I could find.
Well yesterday I bought a lovely tea dress it is looseish over my tummy.
But still feel conscious of it sticking out.
Which is the best company to buy from.
DD thinks I should have a one that goes under the bust line.
Will these roll down.
I'm sorted re the bra.

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I find the pants always roll down or are uncomfortable/ too short In the body. Etc

I then found , from Debenhams before it closed down, an underskirt that did the same thing.
game changer for me , Far better and with no midline showing where your pants end .
It’s made of the same fabric as pants but it’s an underskirt .
Not sure where you’d get them from now but try M&S or Debenhams online.

I am between 2 sizes and I chose this in my bigger size so definitely do not size up. It did not roll down and definitely held me in when I was having a bloated PMS day:
www.marksandspencer.com/firm-control-high-rise-waist-cincher-knickers/p/clp60285056?color=BLACK#intid=plpnav_pid_pg1pip48g4r12c4

arrgh I mean definitely do not size down.
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Mines similar to this. And I love it.