Sorry, I don't know how to post a pic. I have this top
www2.hm.com/en_gb/productpage.1053257001.html
and looking to possibly wear it on a date this week with black wide leg pants. I'm in my 50s and although it's not a first date there's still a risk of scaring the guy away, so I don't think I can carry off the bold black underwear look as the model does.
Going braless isn't an option (because 50...) ... bras with any kind of pattern are visible and distracting/clashing with the pattern on the top. I tried it with a plain nude t shirt bra hoping it would be 'invisible' but it just looks like a boring nude bra underneath.
Any thoughts on how I can style this out and up?