I am going to a fancy awards ceremony with work and need a long evening dress. I have never had one before! I have had a look on John Lewis, Coast, Reiss, Outnet but everything seems either for very thin people (I want to cover my arms and have a mum tum) or a bit mother of the bride (I am only 41). Am I missing something? I don’t mind spending £300ish but would like to like it! I did like this one with a cape (DH thought it was hilarious) but they don’t have it in my size (10): www.johnlewis.com/ralph-lauren-apiatan-cape-evening-dress-polo-black/p109334135?deepLink=false. Also I’m only 5’4, is everything going to be too long? Not much time to find something & have it adjusted. Argh please help!!!