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Bikini for pear shape

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itsmeagainagain · 15/07/2022 16:32

Hi all if you’re pear shape with a bit of a tummy what bikini do you wear. I’ve always thought a high waist big pant type bottom is more slimming but I read that bottoms that tie on the side can make bottom half look slimmer as less of an expanse of fabric. I can sort of see the logic but then it won’t contain my wobbly belly!! What to do!?

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LoobyDop · 15/07/2022 16:43

That’s my shape. Tie bottoms are good because you can make sure they don’t dig in. I find a low-cut leg, hipster shape works well as well. I think high leg just makes thighs look enormous, because visually it turns your whole hip area into thigh. And I’m not a fan of the massive retro high waisted style that’s everywhere at the moment, because they tend to be so fitted that you bulge out around the edges. More of a 70s style, lower cut works with plumpness and turns it into curviness- I think that’s the way to go rather than attempt to contain it.

Shinyandnew2022 · 15/07/2022 19:53

I haven't worn a bikini for years but am tempted to think sod it and get one for upcoming Holiday - so following with interest.
When younger I always bought tie side and halter neck styles - maybe I was on to something !

Fatballs · 15/07/2022 19:56

I only wear tie bikinis, bottoms and tops. That way I don’t need to buy new ones when my weight changes.

itsmeagainagain · 15/07/2022 19:56

@LoobyDop agree re the bulging so maybe ties are the way to go 👍

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itsmeagainagain · 15/07/2022 19:58

@Shinyandnew2022 am really trying to have that mentality and not worry what I look like but it’s so hard! I put a bikini on today on the garden to try and get used to it and all I could see was my tummy sticking out 😢 wish I had embraced bikinis when I was 3 stone lighter but I thought I was too fat I really wasn’t!

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Shinyandnew2022 · 16/07/2022 12:51

itsmeagainagain · 15/07/2022 19:58

@Shinyandnew2022 am really trying to have that mentality and not worry what I look like but it’s so hard! I put a bikini on today on the garden to try and get used to it and all I could see was my tummy sticking out 😢 wish I had embraced bikinis when I was 3 stone lighter but I thought I was too fat I really wasn’t!

I feel the same spent my whole adult life thinking I can't wear certain things but am now realising life is too short - I lost 3.5'stone and still feel self conscious but am trying to tell myself this is as good as it will get and I need to realise other people won't scrutinise me how I do !
Still not found the holy grail of bikinis though.
Shops seem full of up mix and match tops and bottoms never in my size ..
Any links to ideas welcome !

Sickoffamilydrama · 16/07/2022 13:37

I'm an hour glass but bordering a pair (if that makes sense) really rate Pour moi, I find lots of bikinis and underwear digs into me at the bikini line but they don't.

itsmeagainagain · 18/07/2022 12:54

Sickoffamilydrama · 16/07/2022 13:37

I'm an hour glass but bordering a pair (if that makes sense) really rate Pour moi, I find lots of bikinis and underwear digs into me at the bikini line but they don't.

some really lovely ones on here thanks @Sickoffamilydrama 👍

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