I have clearly found my people...
My feet are a size 8 and a Clark's 8 in a standard fit does for me. Though my feet were properly measured a few years ago and turns out one is a 42 and the other is closer to a 43 which explains a lot of my shoe difficulties over the years. 🙄There's nothing like that sinking feeling when you've squeezed yourself into the only option available and you realise a day or so later that the shoes you bought are in fact just too tight and uncomfortable and will not be 'stretching' any time soon.
Also really fed up with shoe shops that try and pass 41 off as an 8. I wouldn't mind if they also stocked a 9 but that's usually the end of the line. I particularly enjoy being told by shoe shop staff that "we don't have an 8 left but the 7 is quite big!" I'll bet it's not....
I think I remember reading the lack of 8's in stock is due to the bell curve distribution they use in manufacturing. The average female shoes size used to be a 5 and then they tailed off how many they made up to 8. In more recent years the average has gone up to 6 but they've not shifted the bell curve further along so there's more of us chasing far less 8's than there should be.
To save time (and disappointment), I used to just ask an assistant to just take out what they had in stock in an 8 in a particular colour. I remember one Xmas in Dolcis in the 90s needing shoes for a night out and they only had 2 pairs in black to bring me...
When I was pregnant my feet went up to a 9 and that really was fun and games but they have shrunk again. Though I have kept a pair of heels I sourced for a wedding when my DD was 6 months old just for the sheer novelty value of owning a pair of shoes that are too big for me!!
However, the place I have been made to feel the worst for my feet was ironically enough in Australia where I couldn't see over the top of people at concerts and I had to buy trousers in smaller lengths so you would assume foot size would be generally larger too. However, this wee shoe shop turned round and said to me (when I tried on a too neat pair and asked for the next size up) that I would need to go to a shop for "ladies with larger feet" (direct quote). They're an 8, not an 18....