Hi - I can’t find the original but I had made loads of notes on things to try. Basically I realised I looked awful and it was affecting my self esteem. I know a couple of others were following for ideas etc.
I have:
cancelled my hair appointment (am grey and frizzy) and rebooking with somewhere else who have real life people I’ve met with great hair going (March) - am thinking restyle and maybe toner.
Kept up the eyebrow threading - brilliant
Found a local place that does aesthetics and am going to pop in to ask about filler v botox for my 11s, and teeny lips.
Saving for upper lid surgery - this is the worst thing I have and makes me look awful. One lid is sagging so much more.
Booked counselling to start next week to work on self esteem.
Rid my wardrobe of all clothes that either are comfy and frumpy (leaving one pair of joggers) or that I can’t get into so are depressing.
Luckily I have a small amount I can use for some of this (not enough for surgery at all but enough to try filler and get a hair cut).
I’ve also chucked out all the make up I will never wear and got dd to assess the rest - found a fab colour I would never have considered that I love in amongst all the mess.
So thanks everyone I thought maybe I would give up but I feel a bit inspired .