No more new clothes or shoes unless they are essential replacements for something that l have genuinely worn out or damaged the wash!
No more buying flashy new cars after being sweet talked by salesmen during my annual service whilst l wait, the one l have now is perfectly fine, still low mileage for its age, and fairly cheap to insure for my adult Daughters to drive when needed to!
It’s also a damn good car, well made, and could never be replaced like for like, a fairly rare model that is no longer made, hence the sales man would love it as a trade in for himself!
Same salesman kept my little old Yaris for his wife to do the school runs in, it never made it onto the sales forecourt!
Sell things that l saved ‘for a rainy day ’from my Dads place when l cleared out his home a couple of years ago, it all needs to go to the local Auction house where it can be sold, or given away to the local charity shops.
Never be surprised at how life can quickly change, within a year, l have battled Cancer, lost my eyesight in one eye, overcome Claustrophobia
thanks to MRI monitors and having to, and about to welcome another Grandchild, after an eight year gap, a baby boy after three girls for our DD and her DH!
I Lost 5 Stones in weight whist being tube fed, coped with Radiotherapy side effects and Burns, and been truly grateful that l had a basic medical knowledge myself, having done my Nurse training on leaving school, and a very medically minded family. At times due to the pressure the Ward staff were under with the COVID situation, self care became a very important part of daily routine, or risk getting missed of your Charge Nurses list, and going without what was due to you!