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Too big for jeans. Alternative?

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Christmasisallaround · 27/12/2021 18:36

I'm size 18 with big tummy. I gave up wearing jeans when I started gaining weight a few years back. I wear a lot of dresses which are very comfortable but I miss jeans.

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dementedpixie · 27/12/2021 21:58

I wear size 20 jeans from next

Tequilamockinbird · 27/12/2021 22:01

I'm size 20 and wear jeggings from next.

SilverHairedCat · 27/12/2021 22:02

I'm a size 24. I live in jeans.

You need to find the right cut for you. I live in bootcut, long line, high rise waist jeans. Mostly from M&S Magisculpt range.

Datsandcogs · 27/12/2021 22:09

You are not too big for jeans, you just haven’t found the right pair for you. Try Next or Landsend, Juno are good too.

DelphiniumBlue · 27/12/2021 22:13

M&S Siena jeans, but with longish looseish top/jumper.

Ginandplatonic · 27/12/2021 22:14

You are not too big for jeans, you just haven’t found the right pair for you

This. You just need to try on lots of different styles until you find one that looks good on you.

whatnumber · 27/12/2021 22:16

No one is too big for jeans!
Can you dedicate a day to shopping for them only? Go in marks and Spencer's or department store and try loads on!
I love the m and s jeggings

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Christmasisallaround · 27/12/2021 22:42

Thanks for suggestions. I feel quite bulky in denim and trying jeans on in fitting rooms is not much fun. I look huge. (But maybe I need to give it another go)

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itwasntaparty · 27/12/2021 22:46

I'm a 16- 18 dependent on sizing, I'm in dresses / pinafores and tights and boots. Jeans just don't work, I've got a small (in comparison) waist to my arse so following!

hivemindneeded · 27/12/2021 23:07

When I put on a lot of weight I wore smart work-style trousers that had an elasticated back but a proper front. It meant they fitted around the waist but didn't dig in when I leaned forward at a desk. Go for navy or black, as they go with most things - tunic tops, sweaters or tees.

But I also agree with PP that M&S Sienna jeans are very comfortable if you have heavy thighs and waist.

Xiaoxiong · 27/12/2021 23:19

Everyone looks huge in fitting rooms, I think it's a conspiracy of some kind.

Buy a couple of pairs, try on at home, return what you don't like. I find it less of a faff than the fitting room palaver, especially this time of the year.

Seconding the M&S sienna jeans! Very comfy.

BananaPant · 27/12/2021 23:59

@Xiaoxiong

Everyone looks huge in fitting rooms, I think it's a conspiracy of some kind.

Buy a couple of pairs, try on at home, return what you don't like. I find it less of a faff than the fitting room palaver, especially this time of the year.

Seconding the M&S sienna jeans! Very comfy.

I agree.

Changing rooms are so bad

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Christmasisallaround · 28/12/2021 10:42

The M&S changing rooms at my local store have mirrors positioned to give a 360 degree view. Should be helpful but not always a welcomed view!

I will check out the Sienna jeans. I think it I was choosing jeans it would be a loose style which definitely doesn't work with my shape.

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WorriedMumsDontSleep · 28/12/2021 11:08

Leggings, one size up if necessary.

WorriedMumsDontSleep · 28/12/2021 11:08

Jeggings*

peachgreen · 28/12/2021 11:10

Non-stretch denim doesn't work when you're bigger, imo. I go for slim fit jeans with as much stretch as I can find, and they're much more flattering.

Stoic123 · 28/12/2021 16:01

Hi Op.

I don't look great in jeans (short waisted/large hips) so dresses are much better on me.

But- I do like H&M ribbed trouses (comfortable, flattering and wash well). There are a few in the online sale now if you fancy trying a pair out.

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Christmasisallaround · 28/12/2021 16:22

I look top heavy in slim stretchy jeans as I have broad shoulders. I agree non stretchy doesn't work though.

I'll have a look thanks@Stoic123. What do you wear with them?

I've wondering whether I could make joggers look ok. Something like this.

Too big for jeans. Alternative?
Too big for jeans. Alternative?
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Stoic123 · 28/12/2021 17:25

@Christmasisallaround- a mixture: jersey top, long sleeve tee shirts, longline vest with cardigan.I avoid short length or cropped tops- but that's partly short-waisted issue. I can wear a reasonably fitted top with as not as bulky as jeans.

greyinganddecaying · 28/12/2021 17:42

Simply be do bootcut jeggings that are flattering. I live in them

BeautifulBirds · 28/12/2021 17:50

I feel your pain. I have given up looking for jeans that fit. So, watching the thread if anyone suggests anything I haven't tried.

SilverHairedCat · 28/12/2021 18:52

Apart from my M&S jeans, I also have www.thread.com/gb/item/capsule-247-indigo-bootcut-jeans-made-with-organic-cotton-indigo/17483742 - these fit brilliantly in a 24L.

Puffalicious · 28/12/2021 18:58

OP those joggers look beautiful and will flow really well. If you're still up for trying jeans I agree that skinny jeggings and large up top/ shoulders can look really unbalanced. Boden have some really wide leg jeans just now that look like the first joggers you've shown. JD Williams also do a wide range of jeans for all shapes.