Would this be ok?

[GorgeousLadyofWrestling]

I’m 41. I used to be so fashionable and knew exactly what suited me. 3 kids later, what was a great hour glass figure that I loved showing off is now wobbly and bumpy. Waist is coming back so want to accentuate it. But I do feel I have lost my way.

Christmas party is at Bunga Bunga - a London cabaret restaurant. Thinking of wearing with low heeled ankle boots.

I’m 43 and also lost my way style wise so maybe not the reply you are hoping for! 😆 However I really like this outfit and would happily wear it myself

I think that's a lovely outfit 👌

I would choose a black turtleneck with that skirt as it’s quite a statement piece on its own. Combined with the top it might be ‘too much’. But my style is very conservative, classic and plain/ boring even according to my own mother.

This looks really nice!!

It’s lovely! Maybe a chunky belt as well, as I find without a belt I get a bit of pudge where the skirt meets the top (you might not have this issue!)

@Mushrooms0up

It’s lovely! Maybe a chunky belt as well, as I find without a belt I get a bit of pudge where the skirt meets the top (you might not have this issue!)

I think it would be a great outfit and was going to suggest a wide belt too (I'd definitely one, you may not!)

I'd need one that should say!

I love the outfit!

Bardot jumper much better for evening that turtle neck

It’s lovely but have you tried it on? I got a long pleated skirt from Next and it looked horrendous. Not sure why as they look nice on other people but it didn’t do my stomach any favours.

Yes it’s great

Don’t do turtle neck

Love it. You'll be a Christmas Cracker 😀

Thank you everyone! Big boost of confidence ❤️

I have tried it on - I’ve worn it quite a lot, with a black turtle neck when I want to dress it down, so that was a great call. But yes it miraculously looks ok.