Active discussions

Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Talk
Style and beauty

Looking for style advice? Chat all about it here. For the latest discounts on fashion and beauty, sign up for Mumsnet Moneysaver emails.

Original poster

Best way of hair removal for a 9 year old?

86 replies

KidsAreMean · 04/09/2021 15:15

Bit reluctant to let her loose with my razor, I massacre my own legs enough as it is! Plus she doesn't like that my hair grows back spiky and she knows that's because I shave. If I use the epilator, half grows back under the skin, so reluctant to suggest that also because of the pain (and that it takes hours). Is waxing different to epilating? I've never tried.

Boy in her class has been making fun of her for having hairy legs. She hasn't asked yet to get rid, and shrugged him off, but was a bit bothered when she told me. I think I should prepare myself so I have everything if she decides she wants to. She doesn't have any signs of puberty yet. I have to shave every other day to keep my hair under control, 9 seems very early to have to start worrying about this.

OP posts:
KatherineJaneway · 04/09/2021 15:19

Would she cope with waxing?

Elouera · 04/09/2021 15:21

Depilatory cream? Stinks, but the hair doesn't seen to regrow as spiky as after shaving.

JennaPenna · 04/09/2021 15:23

Hair removal cream

MeredithGreyishblue · 04/09/2021 15:23

Electric razor? Won't hurt her and she can do it safely herself.

I've gone back to using one - quite convenient!

lanbro · 04/09/2021 15:23

I'm expecting my 9 year old to want to deal with her very hairy legs soon. My plan is to help her shave them then use my Lumea on the to inhibit the regrowth

Original poster
KidsAreMean · 04/09/2021 15:23

Would she cope with waxing?
I don't know. Isn't that just as painful as epilating? (And more messy?)

OP posts:
Original poster
KidsAreMean · 04/09/2021 15:24

Lumea on the to inhibit the regrowth
I'm a bit reluctant to go this route as there is a history of skin cancer in the immediate family.

OP posts:
Original poster
KidsAreMean · 04/09/2021 15:36

Electric razor?
Do you have any recommendations?

I shall get some cream on my next shopping trip and see what it's like.

OP posts:
Hellocatshome · 04/09/2021 15:43

I used hair removal cream when I was young it was nice and easy.

orangejuicer · 04/09/2021 15:44

Lady shaver - not as smooth as with a razor but enough that you can't see it.

SarahBellam · 04/09/2021 16:17

My DD (15) and I both use the cold wax strips. Quick, effective, and virtually mess free. As long as you do it properly it’s not too sore and the whole thing is over in a few minutes. Regrowth takes about a month and is soft.

WhereAreWeNow · 04/09/2021 18:01

Phillips website says not to use Lumea on under 18s so I definitely wouldn't do that. I would try to put it out of your mind until your DD says she's bothered and wants to do something about it. 9 is still so little and all hair removal methods have drawbacks (stubble, cuts, painful plucking, harsh chemicals).

ilovemydogandmrobama2 · 04/09/2021 18:06

Not sure about your area, but our NHS trust has a laser centre where people can pay privately for hair removal. It may be an idea to have a chat with them, as they may be able to advise.

And such a shame that she is being made to feel uncomfortable about her body at 9. Sad

MeredithGreyishblue · 04/09/2021 18:41

I've got a battery one. Phillips maybe?

LizzieMacQueen · 04/09/2021 19:00

I wouldn't recommend waxing that young. Laser treatment, a reputable place won't start until she is 6 months + having periods. So I was told, anyway.

So I'd suggest Veet, with you helping her of course.

Popitdontstopit · 04/09/2021 19:03

Teaching her how to swear at bullies would be more useful than teaching her how to depilate.

SparklingLime · 04/09/2021 19:07

I know you said you want to be prepared, but surely the first thing is a word with the class teacher? Girls should not be under this pressure from boys from such a young age.

cherrypiepie · 04/09/2021 19:20

9 is so young I agree. But I would let her have a wet dry lady shave when she wants one.

She can use it herself.

lanbro · 04/09/2021 19:23

@WhereAreWeNow the website says it's not intended for under 18s and is not a toy, it doesn't state it can't be used on under 18s that I can see...I don't see why it would be dangerous to use on them under supervision unless I'm missing something? It's a light, that has no links to cancer

In an ideal world we could all be as hairy as we want, but I remember being teased about my dark hair, and moustache, and being forbidden from dealing with it until a certain age. I would never suggest my dd do anything but I will absolutely support her if and when she wants to deal with it

purplesequins · 04/09/2021 19:24

electric lady shaver.
painless and safe.

Original poster
KidsAreMean · 04/09/2021 19:26

Yes, we have parents info evening next week and I'm going to raise it then. A couple of other mums have said their DD's have said some of the boys are calling some the girls fat Angry

She said she didn't know what to say so didn't say anything. I will try out the cream and cold wax on myself - although I don't remember the wax being very effective last time I tried (years ago!) - so I know how it all works.

OP posts:
CattyMcNips · 04/09/2021 19:28

A good quality razor such as FFS.

BabycakesMatlala · 04/09/2021 19:29

Speak to the teacher and get them to make sure this never happens again, just as you would with any other bullying. That little boy shouldn't be treating girls like that.

And then get prepared for the eventuality that your DD does want to do some hair removal - I'd agree with others that cream is prob the best bet aged 9, supervised by you.

BabycakesMatlala · 04/09/2021 19:30

Sorry, xposted - glad you're going to raise it!

AdoraBell · 04/09/2021 19:30

I would email the school about this first.