Help with bras please ! I've just returned my third bra order because they gaped and looked shit. The ones I have are really old, tatty and also gaping at the top.
I've two toddlers and BF'd then expressed a lot. I've measured myself using boob or bust and have tried a variety of sizes and styles... and nothing works 😔
The problem is sagging, but more than that ... just... zero volume at the top. They used to be so bouyant and full. Now the top is flat as a pancake. Even "balconette" styles seem higher / taller in the cup than I anticipated and the top gapes. And it looks bad under t-shirts.
I think I need padding / gel pads in the bottom. Not to have an amazing wonderbra-esque cleavage, but just to push what I've got upwards to actually fill the cups ?
Has anyone tried this? Or any other suggestions please ?