I'm a 30J bra size and in my 50s so getting a bit saggy. Normal pjs are now (a) unflattering and (b) a bit uncomfortable.
I've tried the Bravissimo pj tops which are ok but the built in bra is too much like a normal bra - quite stuctured with synthetic fabric which is sweaty for night time. I can't find anything else similar. What I'm looking for is either a pj top with built in support that isn't industrial-grade daytime level. Or maybe a large cup crop top or light night bra that I could wear under a normal vest. Has anyone found anything like this?
I'm also wondering if people wear their normal bra size in nightwear e.g. would I be better going up a band size or two for more comfort and less tightness?