Talk pants to me

[ZacsAndMe]

Normal stuff just ain't working for me anymore.
I usually wear hipster, boypants,hotpant style underwear but after having LO whos now 3, everythings just lumpy and spilling out mainly around my hip,tummy and thighs. It's really getting me down. I feel like I'm always tugging and pulling when I'm wearing leggings or tights to ensure everythings in place.

To me shapewear looks pretty uncomfortable but I think my time has come to embrace them.

Which would you recommend? Would really like something that doesnt keep riding up/down aswell.

Reading with interest as I feel vile in a full pant but my shorts are too los. That said, lace trimmed shorts from Asda aren't bad. Will try find a link

I'm just desperate for something that isn't constantly wedged in my butt 😵‍💫 I'm pear shaped with a big bum and I've tried everything

Can't add pic but midi lace trimmed by Asda George

Have you tried Fatface? I love their knickers

I used to like white stuff and, more lately, stripe & stare but I bought these from m&s (to get me the £20 beauty bag) and I love them. They're soooo comfortable.

[ that is not me in the photo 😆 ]

I like M&S Brazillians. They are a good fit on me, come in a variety of colours (I don’t do white or beige, l like to live life in colour!) and they don’t ride up or down. Look for something that has
S-T-R-E-T-C-H. 100% cotton just isn’t going to hack it.

If you really feel you need shapewear, consider a control slip. M&S do them and l find them more comfy than control knickers.

Finally, tights. Not this weather please! But when it gets cooler consider the Autograph Seam Free. As the name implies, no central seam, so more comfortable. They also have a sensible sized cotton gusset. Now, this may sound odd at first, but because of the gusset you can wear them without knickers at all. Without the double layering they adhere to the body without slippage and stop put. Sister and l learned this trick long ago.

I've recently moved to these M&S full briefs:

www.marksandspencer.com/5-pack-cotton-rich-lace-trim-full-briefs/p/clp60437456?color=BLACK

The lace isn't scratchy at all and adds nice interest. Wayyy more comfortable that my old midis.

I feel your pain! I'm pear shaped and hate buying knickers as I find this is a problem. M&S Brazilians don't work for me at all - they just go up my bum the minute I start walking. M&S midis are good, I find, and the high leg styles. I also have the ones that Lizzie posted the pic of upthread and they work well for me.

I'm also a big fan of fat Face pants.

@LizzieMacQueen

That made me laugh

You could have got away with us thinking "ooh she's very toned "

@LizzieMacQueen - You don’t have to be so modest; we know it’s you 😂 !

@StarlightLady and @JackieWeaver , oh I wish. ....... they're magic pants but not magical....

I wear M&S massive full-brief knickers under dresses/skirts if I'm not wearing tights. There is nothing brief about them. I'm a few pounds up after a year of WFH and I feel like they smooth things out a bit. For jeans/trousers I wear the M&S Brazilians and think they are comfy and look quite nice. My underwear is all black - expensive bras (32D) and cheap knicks!

M&S Brazillians are my first choice also. Very flattering shape. I get the no vpl version which are quite expensive but worth it

I have the same as @LizzieMacQueen and they're so comfy and soft

What are they called @LizzieMacQueen , the style I mean, though feel free to share any nicknames you also have 😂

Following, still wearing my post csection high waisted pants from Asda (the multipacks ones) almost 2 years on! Used to love m&s Brazilians but nothing seems to compare to my Asda ones anymore! Desperate for a change! Will check out the fat face ones

@polkadotpjs

They are called 'Sumptuously Soft'

So far I'm very happy with them.

But on a lovely warm day... 😉

It’s a summer sport though.

I love my plain black M&S pants as they always stay in place on my ever changing body shape

Thank you @LizzieMacQueen !

These are really nice. Decent coverage, don’t migrate up your backside, look good. www.marksandspencer.com/silk-and-lace-high-leg-knickers/p/clp60267413?color=BLACK#intid=prodColourId-60267413

M&S no vpl

@MindBodyChocolate - l agree. I have those in red and in black. The red appears to be discontinued now though. I wouldn’t go for the other colours.

Another vote for M&S Brazilians. I find I need to wear pants a size or two bigger than I need for jeans.