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Wedding guest outfit- too formal now?

62 replies

nowlook · 22/05/2021 08:52

My cousin was due to get married last June. Grand country house job probably with ice sculptures

The wedding will now take place next June in a very nice country pub with marquee. Hurray!

The outfit I bought for the original wedding now feels like it would be out of place. I'm unlikely to go to another wedding any time soon. I love the outfit (it's my colour and very flattering), but I just need to bite the bullet and flog it, don't I?

TLDR: is this too formal for a country pub wedding?

Wedding guest outfit- too formal now?
Wedding guest outfit- too formal now?
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nowlook · 22/05/2021 08:54

It's this style

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bonfireheart · 22/05/2021 09:01

It's gorgeous, I'd still wear it. Weddings are one of the few excuses to get dressed up.
Anyone who judges you is just miserable.

ATowelAndAPotato · 22/05/2021 09:03

I’d definitely still wear it. I think most people are looking forward to getting dressed up again, and may also have outfits they bought last year so go for it, and enjoy looking fabulous!

sakuramiyagi · 22/05/2021 09:04

I would definitely still wear this. It is stunning!

BramStoker · 22/05/2021 09:05

If its 'too formal' for a wedding then where are you expected to wear it!?

If you still love it and it fits nicely then I can't think of any reason why you can't wear it

Crockof · 22/05/2021 09:05

It's gorgeous, weddings are definitely OK to dress up for, I'd just tone down the head wear.

Lollypop701 · 22/05/2021 09:07

I’d wear it… as a bride I’d want people to get dressed up!

OopsUp · 22/05/2021 09:08

Its beautiful ! Wear it but no head stuff as I think that's what makes things more formal.

Thinkaboutthings · 22/05/2021 09:09

Yes of course you should wear it. It looks nicer on the model than on the hanger. What would you wear instead?

Thewinterofdiscontent · 22/05/2021 09:12

It’s stunning. Where is it from?

I know what you mean about formality but it’s a one off wedding. It’s probably the only time when over dressed is a safer bet than underdressed.

nowlook · 22/05/2021 09:16

Thanks all! Wasn't expecting those responses.

Agree about the hat. Would still need an updo though because of the neckline.

It's by Gabriela Sanchez. I bought it on eBay about 18 months ago. It fits well thanks to two successive low-carb bootcamps

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lightand · 22/05/2021 09:30

I wold still wear it too.
fwiw, I went to a funeral this week, and people were still "dressing up" for that.
So why not a wedding!

DifferentHair · 22/05/2021 09:33

Oh I loooove it. Wear it

CaraherEIL · 22/05/2021 09:37

Wear it, it’s stunning

StCharlotte · 22/05/2021 10:08

Definitely wear it! It's utterly lovely. Maybe wear a satin headband rather than an all-out fascinator or hat.

MikeWozniaksGloriousTache · 22/05/2021 10:17

It’s not my style but it’s a very well made, structured outfit and it looks perfect for a wedding, even a low key one. If you love it wear it. The colours are beautiful.

Gemma2019 · 22/05/2021 10:19

No way would I return that outfit - it's stunning. I would still wear it to the wedding, I dress up for weddings no matter where they are held.

IfIFell · 22/05/2021 10:21

I got married in a country pub. People still dressed in ‘formal’ outfits similar to that -not many hats and fascinators though but last time I went to a fancy pants church plus country house wedding people weren’t wearing them either. Which is a shame as I suit hats.

Bibagirl99 · 22/05/2021 10:23

It's beautiful. If others are not as well dressed as you then hold your head high. I would not waste the opportunity to wear that and nor should you. But I'm sure you will look wonderful in whatever you choose.

MadamBatty · 22/05/2021 10:25

It’s lovely...if you want to sell it you have a buyer 😁. Wear it.

nowlook · 22/05/2021 10:37

Really quite touched by this thread, actually.

A headband could work, but also concerned I might look like I'm cosplaying as Anne Boleyn. Or one of the York princesses.

I wouldn't have thought twice about it pre-lockdown, I imagine. Strange what this whole thing has done to my brain Confused

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CheerfulBunny · 22/05/2021 10:42

It's completely gorgeous, lovely colour. I think you should wear it too. You should also go to the races this year and wear it there as well! Smile

AdaThorne · 22/05/2021 11:09

That outfit is BEAUTIFUL! Honestly, I'm a bit jealous you've got an occasion to wear it for - frankly, if I owned it I'd be wearing it to take the DC to Nandos on principle.

We've all been shut in for so long. Wear something glorious and enjoy every moment.

Gellyf · 22/05/2021 11:15

I prefer something brighter for such events. It is only my opinion

SpeakFriendAndEnter · 22/05/2021 11:21

I love it! So chic and trendy too