Hair help please .

[Tiddleypoms]

I have very non shiney hair that the hairdresser says has a rough cuticle. The day after washing it looks dry , totally dry, with no shine at all. If I brush it ,it just looks like a huge non defi ed bush of sticking out hair with no definition .
It is realy dry and lifeless.. x
Is there anythimg i can spray on daily to break it up.and tonre define and condition ... it looks.like a big dry mass of hair and i dont want to shampoo daily for eg.just ro.make it shiney, bit wd like to actualy know.what to do.

Coconut oil - either in an actual hair product or just a generic good quality jar. Use a small amount and apply to lengths, leave for 5 then comb through the rest.

Thanks . !
When i wake up my hair is dry and full of frizz. I cant brush it as it gets worse. It looks more like a brillo pad ! I cant wash it every day , which makes it shiney, as it makes it drier . Anything i can spray into it each am to mositurise it ?????

Leave in conditioner.

Honestly I’d go to an aveda salon and see which products they recommend for your hair. I’ve used everything over the years and always go back to aveda. Their products just work.