I remember as a teen in the noughties, being mightily relieved when low rise jeans came in - until then I had spent a fair while struggling to find jeans where the hips fit me, but the waist didn't gape massively. Now that waist-bands are rising again I'm finding myself with the same issue - my waist is literally 2/3 the size of my hips, and this doesn't change when my weight does. I've recently bought myself about 10 pairs of jeans, and all of them gape massively at the waist - a belt doesn't help because the waist band just ends up folded over and looking crap.
Any suggestions?