Me too. I think matte is for the under 25s. I love the staying power of a matte but find it ageing. So I prefer a satin lipstick. I love the look of glossy, but longevity is poor.
I’ve tried adding balm or gloss over the top of a matte lipstick, but always find that it “eats”the lipstick and it wears off horribly patchy.
If you wear a balm over matte and it doesn’t disturb the lipstick, which brands do you use?