As I get older my hair seems to get more unruly. When I wash it, it's got a will of it's own and when dried I dare not go out in any windy conditions. Not a big fan of hairspray and gel seems to turn my hair into something solid and hard that feels like it's been superglued. I've also tried products like Pantene Smooth & Sleek hair mask which did nothing. y hair has never been bleached or coloured.
On the rare occasions that I don't wash my hair for a few days a bit of the natural oil returns and it actually starts getting a bit more manageable. But if I leave it another couple of days it just goes greasy.
What can I use to tame my hair that looks sort of natural and means it won't turn into a fluffy mess in the slightest breeze.