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Could I wear this as a wedding dress?

45 replies

riotlady · 14/11/2020 23:13

I’ve just seen this dress from the outnet advertised and I think I’m in love with it. I’m tempted to get it for my wedding but I’m getting married in August and I don’t know if it’s too dark? I’d be aiming for forest nymph vibes but I’m not sure if it comes across too winter-y. I’m not bothered that it’s not white, our daughter will be at the wedding so that ship has clearly sailed!

www.theoutnet.com/en-gb/shop/product/marchesa-notte/dresses/gowns/velvet-trimmed-embellished-tulle-gown/16174186156236338?tp=175320&cm_mmc=PartnerizeUK&EU&utm_campaign=laurenlyst&utm_medium=affiliation&utm_source=PartnerizeUK&EU&laurenlyst=laurenlyst

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IdblowJonSnow · 15/11/2020 09:02

I liked it too. Surely 5,8 is model height or very close to?!

(Short person here!)

riotlady · 15/11/2020 09:39

@dontwantamirena

Just a heads up: the reason this is so heavily reduced is because the brand is Harvey Weinstein’s wife’s brand. While she is obviously not to blame for his behaviour, it was revealed that Harvey would force A-listers to wear the brand to promote it, which she must have been aware of.

graziamagazine.com/articles/harvey-weinstein-marchesa/

If this doesn’t matter to you then feel feel to disregard.

Ahhh thank you, I had no idea!
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Kleptronic · 15/11/2020 09:43

@riotlady it's saying there's one left, size 16, now. Needle & Thread do have similar as a pp said.

riotlady · 15/11/2020 09:46

[quote Kleptronic]@riotlady it's saying there's one left, size 16, now. Needle & Thread do have similar as a pp said. [/quote]
Yes, it was saying that last night but when you try and buy it, it’s sold out. It’s a shame cos it’s stunning (and size 16 would be my size!) but the Harvey Weinstein thing does put me off it a bit anyway

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riotlady · 15/11/2020 09:47

Will look at needle and thread and Etsy :)

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Alexandernevermind · 15/11/2020 09:48

I would blame the wife for her twat of a husband. If there are any left at all, even if too big, get in anyway and have it altered. You need a style like this to fit perfectly, which it never will off the peg. As others said its velvet, so if late August you will be okay, but early August can still be hot and you could bake.

Alexandernevermind · 15/11/2020 09:48

Sorry wouldn't blame the wife- must use preview before I post!!

Nonamesavail · 15/11/2020 09:50

There are no rules. Wear whatever you like.

I wore a black embroidered dress from asos.

HaggisMuncher · 15/11/2020 10:18

Needle and thread dresses are beautiful. Hope you find something you love x

dudsville · 15/11/2020 11:57

It's such a pretty dress and I really love it when brides wear something other than a white dress or do something unique with the white dress. Don't let the fact that HW's wife wore the brand put you off - it's not the brand's fault that HW is who he is. I'm sorry it's sold out but you may find it by ringing the stores if they get a return.

MrsGrindah · 15/11/2020 11:59

Or find a seamstress who can run up something similar?

CherryValanc · 15/11/2020 13:34

@MrsGrindah

Or find a seamstress who can run up something similar?
Excellent idea. I had a friend did this for her wedding.

End result a dress even better than the original she saw as it was made to fit her.

RomillyTheRabbit · 15/11/2020 13:38

Yes! It's lovely.

CherryValanc · 15/11/2020 13:38

I’m 5’8, so not quite model height but tall enough I think? I’m definitely not model slim though

5'8" is a good height for a maxi dress like the one you linked too.

Someone like me 5'3" (ish) no so much, unless it's made for someone short.

RomillyTheRabbit · 15/11/2020 13:39

Oh, saw the updates. Bummer. Yes, maybe a seamstress can make you something similar Flowers.

AWaspOnAWindowReturns · 15/11/2020 13:55

Absolutely! Very Anna from Frozen. It's beautiful. My wedding dress was black and cream so I'm not one for tradition. I'd have the bridesmaids in plain green or blue though, so you don't all look too similar.

AWaspOnAWindowReturns · 15/11/2020 13:58

Just seen it's sold out :-(
Do Dresslily have something similar?

Sithee · 16/11/2020 15:25

If you still like it OP it is back in! Perhaps it was returned? It says one left in size 16 on website

Sophoa · 16/11/2020 20:38

She makes the most wonderful dresses, I’ve had a couple of them from Outnet. I agree that they are reduced so heavily because of her association with Weinstein but she’s clearly a wonderful designer and she’s not to blame for her husband. I can’t imagine what it would have been like to have been married to him. It’s a fantastic way to get some truly high end dresses for great prices

Tomasinabombadil · 22/11/2020 18:50

It’s gorgeous & because of the sheer sleeves & upper will be lovely for a summer wedding. I would even wear it in the winter/spring/autumn with a vintage fur wrap. I did wear something similar for my summer 1977 wedding.💕🙂

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