I have quite soft flat hair that I like to blow dry volume into and then hold in place with a strong hairspray. Trouble is, I fiddle with my hair a lot because it irritates me if it falls onto my face so the hairspray drops out. Not only that, it is very drying and I have bleach on the ends of my hair so it makes it look even worse. Can anyone recommend anything that has the staying power of hairspray but not the 'look' of it? Thank you!