Help me out? Complete novice!

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So I basically have zero beauty routine. I was my face with bar soap in the shower, don't use make up and maybe remember to put on some moisturiser 3 or 4 times a week. Yeah
However, since having kids my facial skin is really red. I don't think it's like rosacea red, it's smooth, but I just look permanently flustered...
Any idea of some sort of creams/oil/magic potion that could calm it down?

Stop using soap. Just use water to wash.

Agreed! No soap!
Look at brands like Cerave and get a cleanser and moisturiser- leave other stuff till you are in a routine. Use a flannel on your face x

Brilliant, thank you. I quite like the "squeaky clean" feeling soap leaves, but it's probably stripping oils etc right? I will check out that brand :)