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To ask how much you pay for clothing?

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pancakeloverrr · 28/05/2020 18:35

Wondering if anyone wants to come out and state what they pay for a dress, blouse, jumper, jeans on average.

Would love to know the most you pay for clothing.

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queenofarles · 28/05/2020 21:36

I agree with others, different strokes for different folks.
I hate the term CPW and investment piece ,clothes and bags are not investments. They are not dividends!

We buy them for the simple reason that we like them.
saying you’d wear it for the next 40 years! Is unrealistic . You love the dress , it makes you happy and can afford it, thats is all that matters.

MuchTooTired · 28/05/2020 21:50

I’m not terribly in to fashion, so wouldn’t spend anywhere near that for a dress. However, for the things I collect I’ve merrily spent over a grand on one piece because I loved it and I could afford it (in the olden days before kids!).

You love it, you can afford it, keep it and enjoy it!

WomanIsTaken · 28/05/2020 21:55

Only buy second hand, either charity shop, eBay or similar, pay as little as I can get away with.
Recent purchases (rounded up to nearest £):
Pied a Terre boots £13
Swedish Hasbeens £9
Brora cardigan £11
Temperley dress £26
Jigsaw skirt £10
Whistles denim skirt (not quite jeans, but denim...) £8
Nice, nearly new items for a song!

oldpaint · 28/05/2020 21:55

...somebody mentioned race to the bottom? I'm probably the bottom.

I buy most of my clothes from Ebay (all tagged and new) or the discount shop 'everything five pounds' (aka, E5P). Occasionally I shop at Very, or Asos, but I only purchase sale items.

I try not to spend more than £5 for a top, or jumper, no more than a tenner for a jacket or cardigan, no more than £15 on a pair of jeans or trousers, and a maximum of £30 on shoes or trainers, or coat/jackets, but preferably less. I will spend more on an individual item, say, a coat or a pair of shoes, but only if I really really like it and think it'll go with stuff I already own.

This month was a 'spendy' month, for me, as I was updating my wardrobe for the coming autumn/winter, and I've spent, in total... £246.50, including postage. For that relatively paltry sum, I received...

6 t-shirts, long-line short sleeve cotton crew neck, asos, all mens range, in the sale, £6 each.
3 cardigans from everything five pounds, one of which was £2.50 in their sale,
2 jackets, a linen waterfall jacket, E5P, £5, a pvc waterfall jacket, zara via ebay, £15.
2 trousers, high waist jeggings, £8, and a pair of jeans, £10, ebay,
2 bras and 7 pairs of pants, a set of autograph silk bra and two matching pants, all £5 each, another bra, £5 and a matching five pack of M&S knicks, £5,

4 pairs of shoes: a pair of trainers, £26, ebay, three pairs of boots, £12, £16, £22, all the sale in Very.
1 long body crew neck jumper, £5, again, ebay,
2 bags, a leather cross body leather bag, £15, and a shopper, £10, ebay,
1 necklace, made of semiprecious stones, £3, ebay,

1 dress, short-sleeve midi, £8, Very
and 1 coat, mid-weight trench, £15, also from 'Very'.

That's my whole autumn/winter 2019/2020 wardrobe sorted, although I will buy, between now and next January, a scarf or two, a few pairs of tights, some socks, a few basic vests, some warm flannel pjs, another multipack of knickers, etc etc.

I probably spend around 250 quid, max, every three months, sometimes I spend less. I always plan for the 'next' season, and I always buy 'off-season', so, warm jumpers and heavy coats in summer, bikinis and beachwear at the start of winter, for instance, because that's where the bargains are. I make a list of what I want/need to purchase for the coming seasons, which means I don't buy on a whim. I keep items for years: a well-cut white linen blazer can be worn every summer until it gets holes in it, same with white jeans, a heavy woollen overcoat can last five years, leather boots can be re-heeled, black jeans I re-dye when they lose colour, and as nothing is particularly on-trend to start with then they don't really seem dated a few seasons later.

I'm not a 'fashionable' person and I ignore trends, I have nobody to impress but myself and yet I like items to coordinate with each other in terms of colour and I want these garments to work with items I already have in the wardrobe.

I love dressing up and I love fashion, but most of the time when I go out I'm only popping to the shops for bread, or walking in the park, or, pre-lock-down, visiting the local pub for a few pints on a Saturday afternoon. I'm in love with the 1980's style big puffed sleeve two-tone chiffon blouses I'm seeing online this year, but I know if I buy one, I'll wear it once and then it'll go into the loft until ten years roll by and it's 'cool' again. If I had a photo-shoot, or a special night out with the girls planned, then yes, I'd get the blouse, but I don't love it enough to want to wear it every month for the next five years. If I buy an occasion dress, when will I wear it? I don't really do 'events', or luxury hotels, or 'posh' dinners, so I tend to buy what I need and what I will actually wear.

I'm very happy with my uniform of skinny trousers, long-body t-shirts and waterfall jackets, and people often pay me compliments on my sense of style (if they're taking the piss and they want me to know then they need to be more overt!) and I love it when people ask me where I bought such a thing and I say, 'oh, this old thing? ebay, five years ago, cost me six pounds' or whatever.

I could spend more money, of course, but I won't. I take a perverse pride in being a cheapskate...

GeorgianaD · 28/05/2020 22:08

I’ve a dressing room full of high end designer clothes but I’m as happy in GAP kids jeans and a high street cashmere sweater (am v petite) as I am in a Miu Miu dress. Variety is the spice of life Wink

MrsBobDylan · 28/05/2020 23:21

Just relax and enjoy your new dress op!

I only enjoy buying sale bargains, TK Maxx and eBay second hand (mostly the latter atm).

I look really fucking cool too, am dead hip Grin

There was a thread on here once about clothing and shoes you'd never wear and most of the stuff I love was on there! However, I genuinely feel great in my clothes and enjoy wearing them so it doesn't matter to me what people think.

sarahcoffeelover · 28/05/2020 23:37

Don't return the dress OP. Price per wear is what it's all about Wink

I have a bizarre wardrobe with both ends of the spectrum in there. From £5 PLT leggings to a £2500 Dior skirt. Like you, I tend to keep all my clothes - I have an Alaïa dress bought 10 years ago that I still wear and can imagine wearing in years to come. Hopefully my daughter will wear it as "vintage" one day too.

Megan2018 · 28/05/2020 23:45

I’d ruin a £700 dress first wear. I can’t keep anything nice.
I buy very few clothes, but roughly:

Jeans - up to £50 but last pair were £26
Boots - always leather but usually sales, £75 max and usually under £50
Coats - up to £100
Tops - up to £40 but usually less
Dresses - I wear a lot for work, usually £50 or less. For weddings etc will do £150 max if I can wear it more than once.

I do buy a lot in the sales. These days enjoy buying for DD more than me though

pancakeloverrr · 28/05/2020 23:50

@sarahcoffeelover

You're my soul mate!!! I love Alaia as well! I don't have any Dior clothing, very jealous!

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pancakeloverrr · 28/05/2020 23:53

@sarahcoffeelover

I have a Few Givenchy dresses that I've had for 12 years, it's wool so looks immaculate and I love wearing them still. But Dior is on another level Wine

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Gwenhwyfar · 28/05/2020 23:54

Well MN is full of rich people so I suppose I shouldn't be shocked at this thread, but I still am!

shinynewapple2020 · 29/05/2020 00:10

Most of my clothing is average / inexpensive e.g Next so maybe around £30 per item, jeans £45, tee shirts around £15

I also have some very cheap clothing from Asda or Primark. My Asda jeans are the really stretchy ones £25; I have some T shirts about £3 from Primark and a couple of jumper dresses from Lidl which cost £7.99!

To balance that I also buy a few items per year from places like People Tree where you pay more so that the people who make the clothing get paid a fair price. A dress may be £80 or £35 a tee shirt.

Shoes normally somewhere like Clark's.

I can't imagine ever spending £700 on a dress!

Fozzleyplum · 29/05/2020 00:31

My shopping habits are weird, I admit.

I have a high income and I buy almost exclusively high quality clothes (silk, cashmere, very high end brands for shoes, bags and scarves). However, I very rarely pay full price for anything as I get the vast majority of my clothes from Ebay. For example I have lots of very good cashmere jumpers and silk shirts, all of which cost hundreds originally, but I pay a fraction of the original price. My best recent bargain was £40 for a coat that had originally cost over £1000.

It helps that I'm not bothered about the process of shopping, high fashion or obvious labels, and I'm a standard size/shape, so I have a good " hit rate" of my purchases fitting well. I'm all too aware of the mark up on clothes and I don't like to buy fast fashion, so this way works for me.

The only thing I rarely buy like this is jeans. I usually get those from Boden or Pure Collection, as they do a longer leg option and I'm tall. I would pay a premium for handmade raw denim, and will look into this for my next pair.

pancakeloverrr · 29/05/2020 00:47

@Fozzleyplum

I'm quite interested in your shopping method. When you look for items on eBay, are they designer labels? Or mid range ?

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pancakeloverrr · 29/05/2020 00:48

@Fozzleyplum

Also, are they gently used high quality clothing? How are you finding such good deals?

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Fozzleyplum · 29/05/2020 01:13

I buy makes such as Max Mara, Loro Piana, Brora and Paul Smith, Ralph Lauren Purple Label, plus some more obscure brands. My bargain coat was Max Mara. Most are in good or excellent used condition and are classic styles. I buy shoes and bags from brands like Russell and Bromley. I also have some Hermes and Ferragamo scarves.

I wouldn't have the same success if I was after labels that were currently very fashionable, but that's not my thing.

I usually wash the dry clean only silk and cashmere. I wouldn't risk it if it cost £300, but if it was £40, I'm prepared to try. I've not ruined anything yet, and it means that I am happy to wear the clothes, rather than keeping them for special occasions.

Zenithbear · 29/05/2020 09:09

Jeans £20 new look fit me perfectly
Jumpers usually cashmere or wool up to £300. I do like designer ones
360 cashmere, John Smedley etc.
T-shirts/long sleeve tees £10 H and M
Footwear up to £200
I don't think I have any dresses that hasn't come from a charity shop so approx £20 maximum. Especially dresses for special occasions that people only tend to wear once or twice so they seem brand new.
I wear a lot of skirts most expensive was Karen Millen wool kilt about £100.
Coats and jackets are my favourite items so I will spend up to £500 for something I will wear constantly.
Bags I always get from charity shops. Never spent more than £10.
Summer clothes I buy fairly cheap and replace the most often as they tend to be trashed after a few years so usually wait for the sales. Pick up shorts, vest tops etc for a few quid.
I only buy a few items each year these days.

sarahcoffeelover · 29/05/2020 09:14

Yes @Fozzleyplum I'm lucky DH is a Frenchman who grew up with women wearing Dior (MIL is amazing) Grin. I have quite a collection growing

I know it's shallow but clothes bring me a bit of joy

I'm also consciously trying to veer away from the fast, disposable fashion but I realise I'm lucky enough to be in the position to do so.

PerditaProvokesEnmity · 29/05/2020 09:27

I know it's shallow

Buying the work of extremely talented designers who define their era through clothing is no more shallow than buying art or keeping expensively bred pets.

beguilingeyes · 29/05/2020 09:30

Ebay, ebay, ebay. Very rarely buy new clothes now. I buy a lot of Phase Eight stuff for about £5

Herja · 29/05/2020 09:40

I won't spend more than £50 on anything but coats and boots. I genuinely can't make myself hand my card over. Normally no more than £20 on anything generally and that's not often...

BUT, that's because I'm permanently skint. If it makes you happy and you can afford it, get it. I bet everyone on this thread would spend that on a holiday without question, and more too. If you genuinely love the dress and will get years of pleasure from it, I'd consider it a better use of money than a cheap week in spain. Keep it.

Hairydogmummy · 29/05/2020 10:41

Completely agree @PerditaProvokesEnmity I get so fed up of the guilt that people are sometimes made to feel for choosing to spend on clothes and beauty. It's not 'shallow' at all. Even somewhat cheaper clothes are the result of the talent and work of a number of people and buying them contributes to the economy and supports the work of designers. Beauty products are similarly the work of scientists and others. If no one bought quality clothes, then there would be no second hand ones for others to buy. I donate about £100 worth of clothes a year to charity (I know this as they send letter because of the gift aid).

Floisme · 29/05/2020 10:45

Yes it's funny how I rarely see people patronised and lectured like this for buying expensive holidays or cars or premier league season tickets. But a woman with (presumably) a good income spends her money on something she loves - and that was probably made by a woman too - and out they come.

What ought to be shocking is that a company can ship a dress across the world, sell it for a £5.99 and make a profit.

And yes Hairydog, quite. I buy mostly second hand but if there weren't people out there buying beautiful new clothes I'd be screwed.

nicelyneurotic · 29/05/2020 10:47

It sounds like you really love it so keep it and enjoy! Why shouldnt you treat yourself? Especially at this time while we cant holiday, eat out or get our hair done.

This thread has convinced me to spend a little more on items I really love too.

nicelyneurotic · 29/05/2020 10:49

Also a dress is not always just a dress. For you it may be confidence, a reward for hard work or just a message to your self esteem that you are worth it.

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