OK I am throwing myself to the dogs....

[Nemo2007]

I know looks DO matter and I need some help. I want you all to tell me honestly what you think of the way I look. I need motivation to change a lot of things so please be honest I can take it...lol Pics on profile that ds took tonight

Ribena - I think you, and my norks salute you (down in front there)

What about this look? See catwalk video. That top's really flattering just because of the gathering at the bust. With a decent bra, of course. Haircut, colour (bit of gold/red) and earrings and accessories. Don't think white is great on you, but warmer colours would look great because of your nice colouring (same as mine)

TMMJ - umm well my boobs are a 34G and I have a 26 inch waist. Although they might have gone down to a 34F now, I've lost a few pounds in the last week.

I've got some curtains like that Whelsy

Nemo, are you still here or have you given up on us and gone to watch telly?

fraid that top is not good

more of a sleeve is better short sleeves/ no sleeves very unoforgiving/ unflattering

ohh TMMJ which one did you go to?? I am a 42G/H

TTMJ - I didn't say they were up did I? Actually I have some very similar curtains in the bag to go to Oxfam (when we came here there was a lot of chintz (or as I like to call it 'shitz')

If you look at my profile pics you'll see my house, it's the sort of house where chintz would have been acceptable. Until I came. Now we have handmade cream drapes which are much more tasteful.

Well I LOVE it! Pah to long sleeves and hiding arms, I say.

Simple but well draped and tailored tops can make a world of difference. this is a very basic top but it shows off yer norks while skimming arms and waist.

Right, if Nemo's gone, I'm off for some tea. Byeee

clothes..welll I have spent past 4yrs buying a size 30 but was pg etc and DH said they all look too big. That top is a 24/26

layers in hair, maybe lighter colour definitely

you need to lose some weight, sorry but there you go, everyone seems to be skipping round this one but I am not polite

do you have a Primark near you? we have a HUGE one in Manchester, I will drag you round and be Trinny if you like. You could get a new wardrobe for about £70 (if that).

oliveoil, I already said I need to loose a LOT of weight probably why nobody else has said it..I am not soft and know I have a huge fat arse and body. Its just this is the first substantial period in 4yrs that I havent been pg so am now starting to work on myself..lol

thanks TMMJ to be fair my hair was a bit all over the place tonight as I had not long got in and was trying cook tea while thinking about other what I needed to change and was a bit hot n bothered..lol

, have just noticed the ages of your children, you need a medal for still being upright and awake