This is such a shallow topic, but it's getting me a bit down and definitely affecting my confidence with DH. The other day at the hairdresser's and then again today in a photo I realised I look a complete state. My skin is pale and sagging and I look so old (am only 34!), my hair is complete style-less because I don't have the energy to style it. My clothes are a joke - ancient, not fashionable, shapeless and some actually have holes in. 
I keep using the excuse of being tired and busy, but I see lots of mums who all look lovely. I've just fallen into a weird thing since becoming a mum where I feel like I don't know what to wear, I keep thinking I'm too old for things. And also - I really, really prioritise being comfortable these days, and need to be flexible physically for toddler life.
My husband has very delicately brought up our very limited sex life, and I know the way I feel is a big part of the reason it's so crap!
Help, confident ladies! What do you wear? How do you do your hair - quickly, coz I haven't got time or energy to faff on. Do you exercise? When do you fit it in? Any skincare tips that make you look a bit more youthful?
Thanks in advance - I know these things aren't important in the grand scheme, but I appreciate any tips