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Plus size what are you wearing today 2

676 replies

Defeatthedebt · 05/11/2019 07:59

Hi everyone,

Following from thread 1 please feel free to tell us about your plus size outfits and post pictures to give us all a bit of inspiration.

Thanks to all who have contributed and made this such a safe space.

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Moominfan · 15/11/2019 10:55

Peachypips! Love a good charity shop 👌🏾

Lightuptheroom · 15/11/2019 11:19

Dash stretch cords £1
Hoody
Stripped breton style top and regatta trainers. Looking forward to pay day and seeing what sales are around next week

picklemepopcorn · 15/11/2019 14:17

Since we've been doing this, my feed keeps filling up with fabulous clothes ads. Sigh.

TheSummoningDark · 15/11/2019 18:23

pickle I know what you mean. I love so many things at the moment but I've already spent the money I'd saved from birthdays etc.

On the positive side, I'm repairing things I haven't worn in ages and I might even be brave enough to give my knees an airing not seen since 2013 in burgundy tights. I also have some wool that was given to me as a present and was googling "how to crochet a poncho".

SillyBillyBandy · 15/11/2019 19:52

Out tonight. Next top and skinny jeans. Both an 18.

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AliasGrape · 15/11/2019 20:28

Lovely SillyBilly

I’m in pyjamas and have been dressed in jeans, red t-shirt with a silver foil initial I cut out pinned on, and superhero cape (actually repurposed little red riding hood cape from book day) today for our school superhero day.

I’m having a really frustrating time with eBay - I keep bidding on things but they end up proving popular and going more and more expensive so that by the time you’d paid postage and packaging you were basically paying as much as full price if not more for something that’s been worn/used.
For example a primark dress I was bidding on went up to £18 and they wanted £4 p&p
so £22 for a used primark dress that I know was only £15 brand new. It’s frustrating because I’m trying to be thrifty and also a bit more eco aware not buying cheap throwaway fashion but if I want say a jumper (which I do) I know I could buy one quickly, cheaply, and easily from boohoo or peacocks or similar.

I shall try and try my luck in some charity shops I think, I never do well in those either but my sister assured me persistence is key!

BooHaa · 15/11/2019 21:07

Worn for afternoon tea with my Mum (not helping me be less plus size!!!!)

-BooHoo shirt in stock now

  • folded up skinny jeans from Asda
  • BooHoo suede style Chelsea boots
  • Mulberry mini Bayswater bag

Have ordered some wet look leggings to wear with chunky sandals with this shirt for a girls night out.

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NancyEspana · 15/11/2019 21:08

Aw sillybillybandy, I'm so envious. I have such a hankering for a night out. I have no right to complain though, as I did get take out fit amazing lunch a week ago. You look fab.

NancyEspana · 15/11/2019 21:10

YY alias, eBay can be bonkers. The trick is to browse at non peak times if you can and nip in at the end. Doesn't always work as lots of sellers are wise to it and only have their auctions end at 9 o'clock at night, when everyone is bidding!

Love that outfit Boo! You look great.

SillyBillyBandy · 16/11/2019 00:06

@NancyEspana night out it is! Grin

SillyBillyBandy · 16/11/2019 00:07

Just need when and where ! Ooo we could have a Mumsnet meet up Wine

NancyEspana · 16/11/2019 10:54

I am in @SillyBillyBandy Wine and Cake traybakes here we come Halloween Grin.

Yoga this morning!

Leggings, Thought Clothing (ancient)
Top, M&S (ancient)
Sports bra, Nike (ancient)
Yoga socks, Ozaiic (not that ancient)

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Peachypips78 · 16/11/2019 11:59

Alias- persistence is indeed the key. I go in every single time I pass one.

Can't get a full length at the mo but have jeans and dress from a charity shop (marks and white stuff), boots Oak and Hyde, cardy seasalt in sale.

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AliasGrape · 16/11/2019 12:23

Peachy I’m going to try this approach! Love the colours in your dress!

Just bobbing about running errands today so ripped skinnies (I need a non ripped version but they’re soo comfy) - simply be Chloe style, 18R, very v neck t- shirt and a cardigan I just picked up in Sainsburys sale which is a size 20 and completely the wrong shape probably but so cosy I don’t care. Clark’s boots via eBay

AliasGrape · 16/11/2019 12:25

Also the mountains of Chanel are not mine - pic taken in in-laws bathroom whilst MIL alters my niece’s bridesmaid dress.

Moominfan · 16/11/2019 12:39

Alias grape that cardy is bloody lovely

picklemepopcorn · 16/11/2019 13:20

eBay experts, why is the postage so high on a dress? £15+?

Peachypips78 · 16/11/2019 13:45

I love the cardy and boots Alias.

Here's a better pic now I'm home from softplay hell. I'm all boob.

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NancyEspana · 16/11/2019 15:16

@picklemepopcorn, is it coming from abroad?

People used to do it as they didn't have to pay fees on postage charges, but I don't think that's the case anymore, so I have no idea why a UK based seller would need to charge that. If there's still time left at the auction you could message them and ask.

AliasGrape · 17/11/2019 11:47

Thank you for the cardi love! It’s still in sainsburys now if anyone wants one - in the sale but my branch had plenty.

I can’t remember if I posted this but my hen do dress arrived - it’s this one and I got it in an 18 which is the biggest size it goes up to
www.debenhams.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/prod_10701_10001_61252%20284412?sku=PV5D63BCEE00A0B&pdpsku=PV5D63BCEE00A0B&CMP=AFC-CJ-2936164-3852549&CJEVENT=e91e76de087b11ea80a7018c0a180510

It is NOT a generous 18 and whilst it techno ‘fits’ it makes me look like a capital D just one big round belly.

So I should probably go with something else but I can’t find anything I like as much really. I love the green dress I so want to wear it but it’s NOT flattering. And part of me thinks who cares if it makes me look fat, I am fat but I love it anyway so what? But then conditioning kicks in! Any other good ‘party’ dresses around that aren’t too expensive?

AliasGrape · 17/11/2019 11:47
  • technically it fits
NancyEspana · 17/11/2019 14:00

That is a lovely dress and not too ££££. The only thing I'd say is, it has quite a high percentage of polyester, which I personally find a bit...sweaty on a night out!

How long have you got till hen do? Could you fit in a shopping trip so you can try on? My favourite party dress came from (don't laugh) M&S! I know it sounds unlikely but true. Asos is also great for party dresses although the quality and sizing can be hit and miss Ime, so maybe order a few to try.

Myalilysally · 17/11/2019 15:04

Just found this thread. It’s brilliant. I’m a size 16 and have had a style analysis done but still struggling. Thanks for all your photos and inspiration.
I’m now following.

AliasGrape · 17/11/2019 18:58

Ha @NancyEspana you’re right it is a bit synthetic and sweaty! It’s more of a day out into the evening, and a lot of it will be in a shed at the Christmas markets (sorry a hutte or whatever they’re called) so it shouldn’t be too hot though once I’ve a drink in me my thermostat goes haywire anyway. I have got time to go for a try on - 3 weeks till hen do.

I have spent ALL afternoon and until just now really having a massive clearout/ sort out of my bedroom. It started off because I wanted to find somewhere better to keep my shoes and boots rather than all jumbled together at the bottom of the wardrobe, I had already mostly emptied a chest for this purpose so it should have been a two minute job but it just kind of spiralled until at one point pretty much every item of clothing and every accessory I owned was piled on the bed/ floor. Somehow i hadn’t got around to putting away my summer clothes this year so I did that first. Actually it was quite sad putting away all that sunshine yellow, vibrant pink and pretty pastels and I realised I was left with a load of black and grey with only the occasional purple to break the monotony.

So I’m extra happy I’ve just ‘won’ a seasalt dress on ebay in a lovely cerise shade. I’d never heard of seasalt before these threads but gather the quality is good. Shall report back when it arrives:

I made myself be very honest about things that I frankly just don’t like that much, rather than keeping things because ‘they fit’ or ‘they’ll do for work’. I’ve filled a few charity bags, a few bits to see if my niece wants as she’s a similar size, and some stuff was fit for nothing but the bin sadly (mostly just very sad greying pants or odd socks).

I then started on make up and toiletries which was an even bigger job as I’m a bit of a hoarder in that regard. I’ve a whole bag for life full of toiletry sets I’ll either take to the charity shop or see if the local women’s shelter want them, chucked a load of out of date/ half used but didn’t suit stuff.

Hopefully now there’s less clutter and chaos there will be space both physical and mental for me to develop a bit more of a personal style - that’s the theory anyway!

NancyEspana · 17/11/2019 19:11

Oh well done alias!

Like you, I've had a bit of a clear out today. I bought a few bits from Sainsbury's and Uniqlo recently. Just some merino jumpers and long sleeved t-shirts for cosy layers this winter, some cheap, (but lovely and comfy), jeans and some plimsoll things. I'm really trying to keep my wardrobe fairly capsule-esque, so I'm doing a one in, one (or two) out policy.

I have loads to get rid of now though and I need to organise things into charity shop, recycling and storage bags. That might be my mission tonight!

I love a good wardrobe clear out.