So I had my ears pierced 20 years ago and both are still open however I've had 6 operations on my neck and face (not face lifts, all medical lol) and developed severe nerve damage so my left ear is completely numb and I've been left with an unbearable tingling burning sensation if its touched, which includes wearing an earring in that lobe.
I'd love to wear earrings but my nerves just can't handle it, would it look stupid if I just wore one in my right lobe? I have so many pretty pairs from before that I really miss wearing but feel like I'll never wear again.