An appeal from my 18 year old ds- he knows he’s asking the impossible. He goes straight from college to work and sometimes out twice a week. Work is very traditional. College isn’t. He wears smart trousers to college on work days and takes a proper shirt and tie to change into. He is wondering whether a “crossover” black shoe exists. He doesn’t like wearing Oxfords with a T shirt, so takes them with him to change for work. He is aware that this is a first world problem!