Just back from Spain where my thick wavy hair didn't need conditioner and fell into styled-like waves when dried naturally. Back in the UK, one wash and I'm back to a bale of straw. Appreciate the warmth helps and I don't usually blow dry my hair at home so how can I recreate the softness? Had a water softener in the past but it didn't help. Read that apple cider vinegar helps clear build up but my hair goes from soft to straw on one wash so no mineral build up. The price I pay for hair products doesn't seem to matter. Advice please!