Please help me choose between 2 dresses for a wedding!

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Got a summer wedding to go to and cant decide between these 2 dresses. Have different shies/sandals I could wear and plan to buy bag/earrings etc (and pants that dont show through!). Thanks for your help.

I think it depends a bit on the type venue to be honest OP? I do prefer the red but it's more casual. Both are nice though, so I'd go with whatever you feel best in, or whichever suited the weather on the day etc.

Red one. Other looks a bit old fashioned/middle aged.

I prefer the darker dress. I feel bad saying this but you look too young for the red one which seems a bit "mumsy" to me. Unless you plan on standing with one leg strategically placed all day to show it has a fabulous split then it comes across as a bit meh. Sorry The first dress however is really classy and with the right accessories is absolute wedding guest material.

Definitely red

Red! With a big hat!

Red one is amazing

Christ alive, are we really "mumsy" if we're not flashing the flesh?

If that red frock is "mumsy" then count me in!

The red dress is not mumsy at all.

I prefer the dark one, really classy.

The red dress isn't mumsy; high-necked midis are 100% where it's at for the young and hot right now.

The red one is way more summery :)

Ah yeah, anything with a whiff of elegance is totes mumsy of course .

I think you should go with this instead - pure white AND revealing; double the attention seeking power 😂😂😂.

The red dress is really elegant and not at all mumsy imo. I've seen some really elegant young women in similar things lately. It's classy, not mumsy at all .

The red one. And I would pair it with some lovely black fascinator.

First one

100% the red.

Both are really lovely but I think the red one just wins!

Oh apparently I’m now mumsy 😂 still love the red though

I like the style of the blue one, but I don’t like the style of the red one. If the red one could’ve been shaped like the blue one? The blue one looks amazing on you.

Blue? The fist pic is taupe/brown,isn't it?

Forgot all about putting this on before I went to work. Thanks for all your comments! Some made me laugh - especially those about my lovely black hats!

The first dress is actually a purple colour but the picture mustnt show it very well. It is from Hobbs and is quite plain but I do like it and thought a bright handbag and jewellery might help.

The red one is from Oliver Bonas and I do like the split but may have to stand like Angelina Jolie to make it show! Shoes are from Dune 2 years ago.

I am 54 so being mumsy isnt too bad! I wont be flashing much flesh no matter what!!

The first pic

Red!

Oh if it’s purple it would be easy to jazz up. I’d go with the first one.

54? I thought you were late 20s/early 30s!

Yep. Far too young for the red one