Bra fit help please - large asymmetric breasts

[CosmicVagina]

I need your help, bra fitters of Mumsnet.

I have very different breasts, I'd say two cups different at least. If I fit to the big boob then little boob is swimming, and if little boob is happy then big boob gets squashed.

They are flatter at the top with flesh underneath at the bottom. I'm a dress size 22/24 and am currently wearing a M&S fullcup in 40H with reasonable comfort but completely ugly.

If I measure boob or bust I'm 42 around the chest and 52 around the breast. I've tried a 42J though and it was massive, 40 back is much better. If I try to measure each breast seporatly I get roughly 52 if I had two small boobs and 56 if I had two big boobs.

Help!

Bump?

Make sure you get a high cut bra, not a balcony one so the larger one doesn't spill out. You will always have to accommodate the larger breast

You can try a padded bra and remove the padding on the larger side.

I would recommend a good bra fitting service. John Lewis are amazing if you have one nearby

M&S bras are crap for big boobs and their sizing is all off. Get yourself to Bravissimo and they will measure you properly and advise the right size/style bras for your shape :) Good luck, big boobs are a pain in the arse at the best of time let alone when you've got a big discrepancy between the two! (30H asymmetric over here!)