Arrrghhh!! How to dress big boobs?

[Amrapaali]

I am a 30J (!!) After many years freelancing (work wardrobe mostly my pjs) I have now gone full time.

I am generally happy with my style but whatever I wear- dresses, tops- my boobs are always going to be the focal point. The men in the office are all gentlemen but I have seen most of them slyly give the "girls" a once-over

My question is this: Can you lovely MNers suggest outfit ideas where my boobs wont be so much centre stage? Or do I just give up and accept I will always be the woman with y'know (cupped hands in front of chest gesture?)

Thanks Starlight very encouraging words

More and more these days I actually don't give a fuck. Combination of things really: have turned 40 so insecurities have lessened a bit, taken up yoga so a bit more body-confident. And definitely the bra intervention on here. Twas a bloody miracle!!

Used to actually walk with a slight hunch to subconsciously "hide" my boobs . Much better posture nowadays and don't really care if my boobs are out there!

But just some days end up feeling wistful for a sleek silhouette. Ah well a girl can dream...

Re your quesion about the bravissimo tunic I linked to, not so much camouflages the boobs as makes the waist look really small... so top half and bottom half are in balance.

But the dark colour helps as well, I almost never wear white shirts as they make my top half look massive. I quite often wear dark tops and paler trousers, or a flared skirt, which has a similar effect.