@fashiondevotee, and @zaraW yes, I'm better off waiting a while and then splurging properly on what I actually want, not compromising and buying something a bit less expensive. At the risk of being lynched here I don't count the 21 pound earrings.
I love designer jewellers. I also love Alan Ardiff, Garret Mallon, Sabine Lenz, Martina Hamilton & her gold 'bean ri' earrings, I'm in love., Alex Monroe is particularly love-worthy. I do love them and what they produce is 'art' imo, art to wear. it's not that i'm knocking the price, I just have to pay bills time when I'm going to treat myself with a big birthday. I'd find it very sad to buy something gold plated and for the gold plating to wear off because I'd worn them every day from LOVE and then end up with something that goes green in my ear!