I stopped following the interiors bloggers for that reason, Mary.
I got really sucked into the whole thing, this ‘community’ which seemed oh so friendly and inspiring, and tbf I’m sure most of the women are lovely and yes they did indeed ‘help me’ to do up my house.
I discovered all these unique interiors brands, small companies that seemed to pop up in all the houses of these large ‘influencers’, and of course I assumed that if these talented ladies endorsed and were prepared to buy these products, then they must be OK! So of course I started buying them too, putting them on my feed, tagging the businesses, thinking I was supporting them, and yeah, wanting to get into this community I guess 😳. I have quite eclectic, alternative taste and I thought I’d found my tribe.
It then dawned on me that something odd was going on... they were all copying each other! There was no authenticity it seemed. The larger accounts were always going off for these special lunches that large companies such as La Redoute we’re organising, and coming back waxing lyrical about these ‘amazing’ products that were going to break the internet. Wow, I thought... I would never shop at La Redoute but if * thinks it’s cool then it must be right? So I bought a product that was meant to be the new big thing once, and guess what - it was horrific quality! I won’t say what it was but it was in every interior bloggers house it seemed.
The scales then fell from my eyes... surely all this was fake? Set up? Surely these middle class women with amazing homes were being given a backhander to tout these companies?! But no transparency, no way of knowing for sure.
Finally I unfollowed the lot of them, and got on with designing my home in my own way. But yeah I look back at that time in my life and feel such a fool! And pushed off too that I have invested money in crap quality products, thinking they were good.