Hi, after 40 odd years of looking for products that are suitable, I've found them and wanted to share.
CANTU is amazing and if the offer is still on are 3 for 2 at Boots.
I'm using both conditioners, not at once, the curl cream and I sometimes use cream activator for day after hair.
If you haven't tried it and your hair is in need of tlc these are the products to try.
I'm so happy and looking forward to the first ever xmas where I am confident with my hair.
Good luck, it may work for you.