Hello, I have curly hair. I'm now in my 40 s and my hair has changed from curls to frizz. I dye it and wondered if that was the problem. Anyhoo, I really want less curls, and bigger waves, sort of like straightened hair which has been put in rollers. Is that something which can be do everything to frizz? Can I have a reverse perm? I'm so fed up with this frizzy fuzzy hair....thank you for any advise! ( Ps I spend hardly anytime on my hair as it has always been ok dryed naturally..until now...)